Get A Girlfriend
There is a girl somewhere that you know is perfect for you. She is the girl of your dreams, and you want her. She might know about you or she might not.
Some men seek to hone the ability to seduce any woman anywhere whilst others are simply looking to get a girlfriend.
What steps can you take to make sure that you can get the girl of your dreams and keep her!
Being More Attractive
Most guys think making more money is the answer to their love life problem. Wrong! A woman will be more interested in a man that is well-travelled, well-read, can dance, cook, paint, play music, and has interesting hobbies. The guy that works all the hours god sends will never be as attractive if he wants to get a girlfriend. At a minimum, do a salsa class! Think of a woman like a talent scout, why should she sign you up? Another facet of this is that the women that are around you will start seeing how cool you are becoming and start to want you. You are not showing off to them, you are just doing cool stuff.
Make the best of your appearance
Here are some ideas:
- Don’t dress generically, find a stylish fashionable look, use magazine advertisements for ideas.
- Ask a top stylist what the best hair style for you would be.
- Manage your nose hair.
- Shape your eyebrows.
- Get in shape.
- Fix your posture.
- Would you look better with a tan?
Do what you can with your appearance and you can easily move up a few levels in the attractiveness scale- which can only be a bonus on your mission to get a girlfriend.
Don’t Catch One-it is
If you focus all your attention and energy on one girl when trying to get a girlfriend, the surprising thing is that you are actually reducing your chances. Usually if you work hard on something it pays off, not in the case of women.
When they think that you are there whenever they want you, it is not a challenge and is less attractive. Keep your options open, do other things, and don’t be needy. Doing things like calling but not inviting on a date or becoming friends first and not asking them out will make them go crazy and start to work for you.
Be Indirect to Maximise Your Chances
Become friends and get her comfortable with you before you seduce her. The indirect approach is best unless she is giving you signs that she is interested (in which case, go for broke!). Get connections, make her feel good around you, be fun and interesting if you want to get a girlfriend rather than have a fling.
Keep Her!
To keep the girl of your dreams as you try to get a girlfriend, you have to keep the elements of yourself that she found attractive in the first place. Don’t quit your hobbies or become predictable, she’ll lose interest. You still need to work, and if you do, you’ll be able to keep her as long as you like.
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