Get Laid
So, you’ve got her number, met for a date or two or are growing fond of that girl in your best mate’s office. The common element in all of these scenarios is that you probably want to get laid but aren’t really sure how to take things sexual.
If things stay as they are without any sexual tension, the girl is going to start thinking of you as a “friend” or worse as a “provider” rather than the lover that you really want to be. To take things sexual with the girl, you want to do it smoothly, this means not suddenly lunging in for a kiss or grope. Here’s how to escalate things smoothly:
Don’t talk to her like she’s your friend
If you are talking to her about her man problems, or having casual small talk, there is no way to generate sexual tension and you probably aren’t going to get laid. Sexual tension is created from conversation which – challenges her, teases her, or makes her feel emotions.
Challenging her, asking her to prove herself to you gets her in the frame of you being the chooser and her trying to win your approval. Teasing her is a great way to escalate sexually. Anything where she is playfully hitting you and laughing at the same time is excellent. Making her feel emotions, means making her talk about her passions, things she desires, and times when she has been in love.
Touch her in the right way
A friend will touch her on the arm when talking, hug her, and kiss on the cheek when they meet. If you do these things and expect to make her feel something it probably isn’t going to work and you won’t get laid. There are two ways to escalate touch in a physical way – sexual touching, and playful touching.
Playful touching is things like tickling her, poking her, playfighting, picking her up, and bumping her as you walk. This is something pretty safe but still creates some sexual tension. Sexual escalation is: holding her hand (use an excuse of looking at her rings or bracelets or nails if you need to), putting your arm around her, touching her hair (likewise use an excuse). These things are something lovers do, and her friends don’t. You need a number of these things to shift out of the friend zone.
Being seductive
So you know what to talk about, and how to touch her, but there is still a big piece of the puzzle missing. That is acting in a seductive manner- something that is crucial if you want to get laid.
Someone who is acting like her friend won’t be able to lead her into thinking sexual thoughts. The elements to focus on to be seductive are:
Holding strong eye contact
Slow you speech and deepen your voice
Look at her like you want her
Finally you can even start to look at her lips and leave pauses where you are just looking at each other. If she is comfortable or looks at you in a seductive way, it’s on!
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