How To Attract Women
The essence of knowing how to attract women lies in your ability to exude attractive attributes: how you carry yourself, your body language, the confidence you exhibit through competence etc. etc. To be more attractive you must learn how to make a positive first impression of yourself in a woman’s mind before you’ve actually approached her: remember, women are by nature much more adept at subtly making judgements about people than their male counterparts.
So the first step to learning how to attract women lies in exhibitting a fun vibe.
How often do you see rows of guys at the bar standing shoulder-to-shoulder in military fashion leering at all the girls, beer bottles clutched to their chests like rifle-toting soldiers standing to attention? These guys don’t look like they’re out to have fun, enjoying each other’s company and have an air of desperation about them that women can sense a mile off.
When you see people having fun, you want to join them and you have a better first impression- they appear friendlier, safer, and nicer. Even if you are not having fun, look like you are. Look happy to be in the place and try to have higher energy than those around you.
The second rule of learning how to attract women is if you are chatting with the bar staff, talking to men, having fun with friends, and generally being the fun sociable guy, when you talk to a girl you’d like to approach, she will be much more receptive because you have demonstrated that that is how you are with everyone and that your natural character is that of a cool person that likes to meet people.
If you want to learn how to attract women it is vital that you should dress so that your clothes are comment worthy: this doesn’t mean you have to wear expensive designer clothes (though that might help your cause) If a girl cannot say: “I like your jeans/shirt/shoes/jacket” then it means your clothes are either ugly or generic. You don’t need to wear outlandish stuff but it should be something that shows you have some personality and aren’t just part of the masses. If you are on a budget, the most important things are the shoes and jacket.
Making sure you look like you already know how to attract women will also help your cause: women notice small details! Clean your nails, iron your shirt, wash your hair, trim your nose hair. Little things like that can completely put a woman off.
Think Brad Pitt or Colin Farrell- men who do and look like they know how to attract women- and try to incorporate some facets of their appearance to match your own. For example, not wearing your shirt buttoned up to the collar exhibits an Alpha, sexual vibe to women.
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