How To Pick Up Women
How to pick up women is a skill-set that many, if not the vast majority, of men do not possess. In fact, it would be a conservative estimate to suggest that only around 2% of the male population “get it” and are naturally adept at picking up women and enjoying success with the opposite sex. For the rest of us, however, all is not lost.
It is, in fact, possible to learn how to pick up women in the same way that it is possible to learn how to acquire other skill sets like driving a car or studying an academic subject.
What ultimately determines whether you are successful or not is your dedication and ability to accept and even harness change.
So, if you want to learn how to pick up women you must, first and foremost, be able to stir a woman’s emotions. Normal routine conversation with acquaintances or casual friends do not make women feel anything- not least for you. To create a quick and powerful connection you need to make the woman feel something. There are two ways to do this:
- Ask questions that bring out old memories that have strong emotions attached: questions about first loves, childhood, and her best friends and family.
- Find out about things that she feels very passionate about.
A secret of those who already know how to pick up women is that when she is talking about things she feels emotion for, they not make the mistakes of saying “me too”, talking about themselves, or asking lots of closed questions. The process is to connect with her on the feeling and then ask another open question. To connect with her, imagine what it would be like to be in her position and then feed it back to her.
The above allow you to make an amazing connection with the girl, but unless you have a sexual element, she might still consider you as someone she likes to talk to and be friends with so the above alone will not allow you to become more adept at knowing how to pick up women.
You don’t learn the art of seduction to have more friends, so what you need to do next is establish a sexual undertone. You need to slowly shift into a seductive frame and she will follow and start to feel those things too. Hold eye contact, touch her in increasingly more seductive ways, slow your voice tone, change the way you look at her – if you want her, don’t hide it, let it show.
Create some sexual tension and she will start to feel it too. This is very powerful, the only caveat is to do this once you already have some kind of connection and not do it too early- a key element to consider when learning how to pick up women is to not make the mistake of displaying sexual interest in a woman too early on in the interaction: you will come off as sleazy and frighten her off.
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