Seduction
The art of seduction is a fine one and so is difficult to master without dedication and perseverence. The biggest obstacle guys face when learning how to pick-up women is that they follow the advice that is given to them by men who are not actually any good at seducing women themselves but who are excellent at lecturing on the subject.
The advice that these men advocate is moot when putting it into play in-field. This means that what is said doesn’t often pan out in reality. So where do men looking to become latter-day Don Juans turn?
Seduction gurus are becoming ten-a-penny with the rise of the Pick-Up community in the mainstream after the release of Neil Strauss’ best-seller ‘The Game’ chronicalling the author’s rise from AFC (Average Frustrated Chump- a man not endowed with great abilities in seducing the opposite sex) to master Pick-Up Artist.
The methods in vogue amongst proponents of this community are viewed with increasing scepticism as details arise about the pasts of these ‘Gurus’- one of whom has spent time in a mental institution.
There are certain conditions that we advise anyone in the situation of wanting to become better able in the skill of seduction to follow. Firstly, you must commit to starting as many interactions with women as possible. Seduction is somewhat of a number’s game- this is what the masters do, they don’t ever regret not starting a conversation because they will do whatever it takes. Even if it is waving or saying “hi”, and whatever the situation, don’t let an opportunity slip by! Don’t make excuses, just do it!
If you are in a conversation with a beautiful woman and are just talking without much idea of what you are doing, your success will be pretty random and unpredictable and your attempt at seduction will falter. To greatly increase your chances follow the process of a seduction as follows:
- Start the conversation.
- Do most of the talking until she is comfortable with you.
- Find common interests and banter.
- Evoke feelings in her by talking about the past, relationships, dreams and passions.
- Introduce a sexual vibe by the way you talk and look at her.
- Smoothly introduce touches in increasingly sexual way, leading to a kiss.
Most men go out on a Friday night and make the same mistakes, and do the same things right, and don’t evolve much over time. This seduction tip will separate you from them. Learn from your mistakes and your successes.
Analyse what you did right, what you did wrong, and what you should do better next time. When did you win her, when did you lose her, could you have done it faster or better? Refine your approach based on your experience and only then will you become a true expert in seducing women and even be able to give your own seduction tips!
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