What Is The Best Place To Meet Women?
Here at PUATraining people often ask us the question "Where is the best place to meet women?" Well, before your very eyes we will reveal this answer once and for all. Where is the best place to meet women? Is it a club? No. Is it a clothes store? No. Is it online? No. Is it through friends? No. Is it the gym? No. The best place to meet women is everywhere! Because women are everywhere! How many do you pass each day on your way to work, on the tube, at the bus-stop, in your lunch-break, at work, in the coffee-shops, on the street...what woman doesn't want to feel attractive, what woman doesn't want to feel liked? And what women want you to know is this: they want you to be that guy who approaches them. "What?!" I hear you exclaim. Yes, you heard me.
They want you to approach. But in the right way. Now, how to approach? Well that's a different story. If you've read Gambler's book, you'll know that the casual approach is often the safest option, just being a cool friendly guy, you can pretty much have a pleasant interaction with anyone you want, wherever you find yourself. But taking it to that next level of seducing a woman, of building a deep connection, actually depends a lot on the location you find yourself in.
So here are some tips for men. The best places to meet women are often the places you'd least likely expect. If you read any flirting tips, it is all about the element of surprise, unexpectedness, and excitement, so the best place to meet women is where women don't expect to be approached, like a bookshop for example, which is always good fun. Or a museum. These are good places to meet women, because their defenses are down and you can come in under the radar. This is why clubs are not necessarily the best place to meet women. If she thinks you're hitting on her too early on, you'll raise a resistance that is hard to lower, and this is not what women want. So often it's good to come in neutral and then ratchet up the sexual tension and escalate if you so desire, once you've got to know her a little bit. But if you want to develop some kind of chemistry with her, then I have some flirting tips for you: try to playfully tease her about something situational and in the moment. Bust on her for trying to seduce you and tell her you have to be careful because you've heard that wherever you are with her is not the best place to meet women!
This shows her you aren't intimidated by her and don't put her on a pedestal. Lead the interaction, both conversationally and logistically by gently directing her experience wherever you want it to go. And in my humble opinion, the best place to meet women is actually in big department stores, because women are often bored and would welcome some kind of exciting conversation in their shopping lives. I think guys, when they're first learning this stuff, put too much emphasis on how to approach. But it's the thought process and belief behind how to approach that actually makes it work. It's the casualness and playfulness, followed by spikes of sexual escalation, that the best flirting tips are derived from. Most tips for men advocate coming in quite heavy with size 9 boots, but here at PUATraining we are more of the school of enjoy the process, enjoy the interaction, feel the energy and relax. The sexual element will come if you are enjoying it.
So remember these final tips for men. There is no one single best place to meet women. The best Pick-Up Artists in the world are natural and spontaneous. And they know that the best place to meet women is everywhere.
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