There are Two Types of Guys in Life… Which one are you?

Guys, this is a very powerful concept.

Get out there and start creating!

-Rich (Gambler)

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Comments

  1. great video – thanks for sharing :) You got a few good guys on your team – Matt is one of them!

  2. Most videos have little to no value. Well NOT this one. I love the idea of the creator vs. the waiter. Great video. I'm sending it to all my friends.

  3. At the end it's all about taking some kind of action.
    Thanks Matt for great video!

  4. Andy says:

    I love it! Thx so much gambler

  5. Crush says:

    Matts a great motivator.

    WHERES THE REST?!!!! lol

  6. AFC Oldman says:

    Excellent video, when you feel like giving up… this is the video to turn to.

    Where can I find the rest of it?

  7. Hollywood Hotsauce says:

    more mental mesturbation method(MMMM)

  8. tim says:

    This is absolutely fantastic! Spoke straight into my life.
    I have a question tho that i struggle with..
    I get out there and create.. and then once i've created, i'm to scared that i'm gonna mess things up by making a mistake as a creator. So i take the 'safe' route and then i become a waiter again so i just go in a circle..
    help!?

  9. JAmie says:

    Great video, loved it. Jamie

  10. spencer says:

    love being a creator. this video was exactly what i had to hear to confirm that i am on the right path to where i want to be in life.

  11. the terminator of th says:

    when i get out there i do more than create, i own that shit bitch i fucking own that shit…….

    I PLOUGH THROUGH THOSES WOMEN I PLOUGH!

  12. bill says:

    Nice video, but it need's to be put in context. People {me!} have busy lives, work etc and can only devote so much time to PUA.
    Being good with women is not the be all and end all. You need to have balance in your life.

  13. dwight goodman says:

    Really good video there actually could be used as a govrning princeble for all of lifes diffrent stituations

  14. if there ever was a says:

    turing it around giving you that movie star eged to give you an advantage over other PUA's and possable nijas ( i live in a stressfull and ruff aera)

  15. Antoine says:

    I deep fully respect you guys.

    Props from Holland

  16. Timothy says:

    Jimmy Cliff says the same thing, but with a nicer melody: "you can get it if you really want".

  17. Domen_ says:

    Great energy! very motivating, thanks for sharing.

  18. xFox says:

    This is one great video. Congratulations Matt, you're a bloody good speaker, your videos are amazingly motivating, and you just put it there plain simple.
    Thanks

  19. SteveO says:

    Terrific video. I saw my friend and I in the description of the "waiters" for the majority of the last 2 weekends in a row out at the bar. This not only comes from being a little anxious but also feeling bogged down with following or not following MM rules. This is giving me motivation to tilt more, and hopefully exist, in the creator direction.

  20. Cullen says:

    Very inspirational.

  21. Ryan Shatwell says:

    I love this video and its really inspirational and true. Thanks Gambler. I've met Matt a few times in person and he is a TOP bloke and has some extemely pragmatic teaching! He is also very passionate and caring with his customers. More of this video would be welcome. ;)

  22. Andy says:

    I remember this guy from the seminar last summer, he teaches really cool stuff, very inspiring person.
    Without going into lots of details, my thinking and vision of certain things shifted after that seminar and I am freaking happy that I went there that day.
    Chaps, really listen to what this dude got to say. Right mindset + action + time, these just inevitably get the job done.

  23. Iztok says:

    He reminds me on Tony Robbins…
    But I like this guy better!
    P&L

  24. This is one great video. Congratulations Matt, you’re a bloody good speaker, your videos are amazingly motivating, and you just put it there plain simple.
    Thanks

  25. Bruce says:

    This is much the same as those who sit on the sidelines as compared to those who get out and play the game. it is ok to sit on the sidelines but if all you do is plan, you will never get into the game. as a creater dont be afraid to try. know that rejection by stepping out and into someones path is all a part of it. As is your inner power. And once you decide not to give your power away to prove yourself to anyone, you are well on your way to enjoying success in all facets of your life. thanks for reinforcing it. i liked it and endorse what you have to say wnoleheartedly.
    Best to you..

  26. Freddy says:

    Simply fantastic.
    I remember a great example I heard of: how many times would you let a average babe try to walk until you say: you can't walk. The answer was: are you crazy??? My son gotta walk, no matter how long it will take.
    We fear failure and that's an excuse for not taking action and never get the results we want.
    Let's be creators ;)

    Thank you gambler!

  27. Jed says:

    awesome video, really hits the nail on the head and gets to the core principles.

  28. Perfection says:

    Thank you for the great video Richard and Matt,this was very inspirational,I've learned a lot from this amazing video,keep up the good work and keep the great videos coming!!

  29. Raymond says:

    This is JUST what I needed. Matt you are spot on. Last night I finally had my first results and now that I have my club k close (after a long time) I'm clinging to this girl … when I shouldn't be. Trying to 'settle'. Waiting …

    Everything you said rang true to my situation. Please make more of these kinds of videos!! They are waaaay more useful than gimmicks, routines and cheap tricks.

    Raymond

  30. Filipe says:

    Matt,

    I was so needing to hear that again.

    Awsome.

    Filipe

  31. shark says:

    this is very good stuff !!! love it

  32. Matias says:

    thank you bb, starting today, I will be knocking at that fucking door!!!!

  33. chris says:

    thanx mate, i'm goin out 2 smack dat shit

  34. stan says:

    hes good
    BUT
    he is thinking that its a conscious choice
    to approach
    its not
    its a matter of beliefs and changing them

  35. MacMeister says:

    IM A CREATER :D!!
    AND he rocks!

  36. Richard | RichardShe says:

    Nice video Rich. I've just finished your book by the way. It's so natural I love how it differs from the more corny American approaches. I can see it fitting British girls better. I'm gonna study the hell out of it next month and then when my friends see the results I'm going to teach them for free. All from your book.

  37. Motion says:

    It's insane that this guy has the same name and is able to give an inspiration speech just like me. Everyone remember that, not only with females does this creator vs waiter work. But with everything in life. So keep that in mind that if you continue to sacrifice for your beliefs and goals, they will come to you. Don't give up!

  38. David Black says:

    It's like the difference between being reactive and proactive. Having life happen to you, or going out there and making your life into what you want it to be. Powerful insightful stuff.

  39. Sam says:

    All about being a Creator :)

    Big up the Creator's out there :)

    Sam

  40. Daew says:

    Not an original idea, but told better then ever before!

  41. ash says:

    hi good video i like the waiter and creator bite, but how do you stop being a waiter and become the creator?? wot do you say? thanks if you can help

  42. Charles says:

    I am a creator now because as a waiter before it was miserable trying to pick up girls. I couldn't approach so I waited for it to happen which took 4 weeks of hanging out at the bar. Plus it was a gold digger.

  43. Ionut says:

    Great vid, admin!!!

  44. Andrew Wang says:

    Great motivational surge for everyone here. Very practical advice that should be ingrained in our everyday lifestyle – inside both the dating & business field.

  45. Great video. Creator vs Waiter. I believe most guys will ask how to be a creator and not a waiter. I hope to add some value here.

    What makes a waiter:
    1) unsure of what he really wants.
    2) always in doubt that good things can happen to him.
    3) not willing to take risks/failures.
    4) not willing to give all out.

    What makes a creator:
    1) knows what he really wants.
    2) he is committed to do whatever it takes to achieve his goal.
    3) willing to take risk even if the chances of success are low.
    4) not thinking of negative result, but always think of what good things can happen if he succeed.

    Hope you can adapt the creator mindset if you want to have success.

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