I’ve had a few questions recently from guys saying things like…
“My girl has a low sex drive and never wants to have sex… how can I boost her sex drive, so I can get laid more?”
“Dude, I think I have a higher sex drive than my girlfriend, is there any tips you have to make her more horny?”
To which I answer… Yes. you’re not stimulating her enough mentally. That’s why she’s not horny all the time like you.
Why some women have a low sex drive
The female libido isn’t as complex as some guys make it out to be and believe it or not, women are far less likely to have a lower sex drive than men.
So there’s only one other explanation as to why she might be more inclined to avoid a fumble in the bedroom with you.
Can you guess why?
It’s because you suck in the sack dude! You’re not hitting the g-spot (any spot) or stimulating her mentally so she gets all turned on before she even gets in the bedroom.
Basically you’re not doing your job as the MAN!
On average your woman should be eager to have sex between 4 and 6 times per week and if she isn’t then it’s not her libido my friend, it’s… ahem… you.
You see, It’s REALLY simple to work out when you understand how a woman’s mind works.
So today I’m going to teach you.
Yep, I’m gonna show you exactly how to increase her sex drive so that she turns into a ravenous sex crazed beast, so you’d better be ready big boy!
I like to call it the FOREPLAY FORMULA and it can be summed up in just 3 simple steps. Once you do all 3 of these things the next time you have sex with a girl or your girlfriend, she will be wanting more, a lot more!
Just quickly: If you want more advanced tips on pleasuring your lady and giving her mind blowing orgasms I recommend you watch this short video.
1. Stimulate her mentally
Men are turned on visually and women are turned on mentally, you know this… you’ve heard me talk about it before. So why aren’t you feeding her what she wants?
- Use sexual innuendos – When you’re having a normal conversation with her, drop in a few sexual innuendos. Not only do women love them, they will always lead her to think about you sexually all day long.
- Whisper dirty words – Be open with your lady, tell her what you want to do to her later on and how much she’s turning you on right now. Go up behind her, put your arms around her waist and whisper some dirty words, nothing too vulgar, but enough to turn her on.
- Show her who the daddy is – When you’re aroused, take her hand and place it on your cock. Then say “See what you do to me?”.
2. Always start with foreplay
You already know that foreplay is essential before you go full whammy and penetrate her. So learn some foreplay tips and use them EVERY SINGLE TIME YOU BANG. Here’s a few to get you started.
- Take it slow – Women are like a dimmer switch, you warm them up before they get all hot and ready for action. So take her clothes off slowly, caress her body and kiss her all over for around 15 minutes before moving down to her pussy.
- Rub the magic bobble – Take about 5 minutes and just rub her clit, in an up and down motion with lube on your finger. Nice and slow, nothing too fast.
- Licky licky – Then move onto licking her clit and changing up the movements and the speed, based on what she is telling you through body language and groaning.
3. Hit the G-spot… every freakin time
After she’s all warmed up, you now need to go for the big time and use various sexual positions to hit the g-spot. Now there are 9 types of female orgasms that she can have so try and hit at least 2 of them during the next session.
Another quick tip to remember… when she’s orgasming, don’t stop! Keep going, harder and faster until she’s out of juice… don’t worry she’ll tell you when.
So there you have it dude, that’s how to increase her sex drive and sexual desire. This will have her begging you to take her into the bedroom, providing you follow everything above.