Flirting Tips That Drive Women Crazy
If you look at the boys who are really good with women, the ones who have truly spent time refining and field-testing their attraction techniques, you will see a common element amongst them. They can consistently get the women they want. Why? Because through dedicated practise and perseverance, they have learnt how. One of the things these guys have mastered is knowing how to flirt, and to flirt well. They have understood that this is a necessary facet in their armory, and they have set about becoming expert at it. Now unfortunately, there are useless free flirting tips everywhere, and only the most cutting-edge flirting tips will work in ratcheting up her emotions enough for her to enjoy it. It is sometimes made to sound like a trivialised part of the equation, like it's merely icing on the cake, which is wrong because to flirt personally means a lot to a woman; it is something she enjoys on a very intuitive basis.
For men it isn't so natural, and for most men it needs to be learnt, cultivated and practised if you want to play on her level. You have to understand that flirting is her language, it is the language she prefers (because it is subtle) and there is room for her to at least test the waters before she decides to take things further. Understand that a woman can learn a lot about you based on your body language and whether you are comfortable flirting or not, it is a good indicator of your ease in social relationships. But bear in mind that many flirting tips you read online are very generalised, and thus misapplied. Flirting effectively is a fast-moving trend, and our company is rare in that it focuses on staying ahead of this trend, accounting for any anomalies in female behaviour, sending our instructors out day after day, night after night, to field-test the latest technology, innovating new techniques based on combined experience; PUATraining strives to have the most thorough and profound understanding of male-female diametrics in Europe, if not the world.
The reality of male-female interactions is that you can't generalise. It is essential to calibrate to each situation accordingly. Yet everyone seems to claim their own free flirting tips will work, every man's magazine is offering tips on how to flirt, and every dating service seems to have some sort of flirt guide. But all these 'how to flirt tips' are purely theoretical, and there is nothing solid about something that comes from second-hand experience. So as a company we have spent thousands upon thousands of hours creating, innovating and refining the newest social technology available to us, to find out first-hand what really happens when you try certain things. Through instinct and dedication we have created the world's most enhanced systems, totally conditioned to our clients' needs, totally at the fore-front of this dynamic game.
At PUATraining we understand that to over-analyse is not where you want to be in seduction. A lot of flirting tips you read won't work, because they're too generic, too general. Flirting needs to be organic, it needs to come from a place that is real, a good place, a place of playfulness and freedom. So all the flirting tips, the dating tips, the date ideas, are more about building a solid mindset and a flexibility to adapt to the woman you are seducing, and to calibrate accordingly. To begin with, before we even get into the technicalities of this, just feel good in the moment. You might have to practise this, you might have to take one of our programs, but do whatever it takes until being in the moment is truly a part of your unconscious instinct and who you are.
Now condition your body language, practise being cool and casual, being totally sure of yourself - do this by not being afraid to take up space logistically, by adopting the Thai Chi stance at times, and acting in a way that is non-needy and totally at ease with the people around you. This now gives you the freedom to create some playfulness, some spontaneity, some flirting body language.
Adopt the mindset that seduction and how to flirt women is like a dance, like music, think of it as a beautiful instrumental melody that you are creating together, lyrically, trans-existentially. It is delicate and instinctive, it is soft and soothing, it is the third dimension in an otherwise pointless two-dimensional interaction. Through these schisms of connection, in these relaxing moments, the bonds of seduction will break through, and you will melt her...
Now she gazes at you for slightly longer. Now your fingers brush 'accidentally-on-purpose.' She gives you flirtatious puppy-eyes. You touch her gently. You caress her palm lightly. You both joke about the other people in the room, you tease her, she teases you... you share private jokes, you excite each other with sexual body language. You are now in the tender world of flirting, breeding all the sensitivity it requires, and you will both find yourselves slowly entering a different realm, the world of seduction.
These Flirting tips above are not really strategies as such, but rather the foundations of a mindset that you can then apply for a much stronger frame. For the engaging lines, the powerful routines, the logistics of these tips on how to flirt, they can all be learnt in intricate detail at our weekend courses. The step-by-step guide we give you will be enough for you to have an automated system for every time you need to escalate with a woman, every time you go out, to ratchet up the tension enough to kiss her long before she even knows what happened...and she'll thank you for it...
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