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If YOU are reading this YOU have just begun an exciting and enlightening journey of self-development that will lead YOU to the ideal YOU. My name is Dharam, although am also known under two different alias' : 1) The Nice Guy 2) Your Friendly, Neighbourhood PUA ;-) THE NICE GUY I begun my journey April 5 2008 with a below average track record of one longterm girlfriend since college and my cousin set that up so technically I hadn't made a single approach in my life. I wanted to take a full handle over this area of my life, but one thing was for sure - I wanted to improve and develop as a person, but I never wanted to change the core person that I am. Continuously facing the criticism I was ‘too nice' to attract the women I wanted, it has been a long and tough journey, but what kept me going was the fear of settling, waking-up next to a woman wondering if I could do better, the regret of never knowing. Today, that fear has driven me to devise a system where you can be yourself, the nice guy and get the girls you want. I now travel all over the world teaching this, however, this website has provided me with a medium through which my system can help as many ‘nice guys' out there that want to know. ![]() You may have noticed in the very first sentence above the word ‘You' is in capital letters, this is because this website, this journey, is a different path for each person, I acknowledge and understand this and therefore i'd like to clarify that this system is not for everyone, it is not one big blanket concept suited to all, it is for the nice guys who respect women. Whether your intentions are to live the rockstar lifestyle, find the one or simply develop your social skills, this system, Nice Guy Game, delivers!! YOUR FRIENDLY, NEIGHBOURHOOD PUA ;-) First things first, NEVER CHANGE who you are, be true to yourself, but don't be afraid to IMPROVE YOURSELF. I myself grew up a little bit of a comic book geek and the biggest Spider Man fan you'll ever meet, that hasn't changed since I started game; thus ‘Your friendly, Neighbourhood Spiderman...I mean PUA ;-) A small glimpse in to the power of my system in its very early stages - The first girl I ever successfully managed to ‘game' absolutely hated comic books and superheros in addition to a phobia of spiders. Within a week of meeting me, she become a Spiderman fan, the specific turning point was when I showed her my favourite Spiderman t-shirt, she turned to me and said ‘thats just childish, I can't believe they do those in adult sizes!' I turned to her, smiled and politely said ‘Yeah that is childish, the only thing worse would be if I pulled out a pair of matching socks' then BANG, I pulled out the matching socks from the sock draw ;-) She smiled back at me, laughed and as I stand there holding my t-shirt and socks she actually said to me ‘Well its cute how you make your outfits match, not so different from the way my handbag matches my shoes' - She woke-up the next morning wearing nothing but my Spiderman t-shirt - Moral of the story: I didn't change who I was, I connected with and related my comic book loving self to her world of fashion and beauty. ![]() A question I am often asked is ‘Whats your biggest achievement since starting game? Is it your quickest makeout? Is it your first same day lay? Is it just having all these women in your life?' Truth is, my biggest achievement is BEING HAPPY... Before game, I use to fall asleep wondering how to meet the amazing women that walk passed me every day. Beginning to learn game, I use to fall asleep wondering do I really have to become a ‘bad boy' to get women. But the day I put my head down on the pillow knowing I can be myself and still get the girls I want, I fell asleep smiling :-) If I had all the women in the world, but had to pretend to be someone I wasn't I would be unhappy...i'm a nice guy, I like being a nice guy and now I can be the Nice Guy That Gets The Girls.
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