Comments on: how to easily get her number (fast)

By: sarah

sarah — Wed, 18 Aug 2010 03:56:52 +0000

How life should go to share all of thing to whom.it is req. give some tip for girl.

By: Foxwalk

Foxwalk — Tue, 13 Jul 2010 18:22:21 +0000

This is really good advice. I actually have discovered this on my own by just talking with different girls. I actually did something very similar to the club X/Y one above, that went like this:

…talking to her about why she was in the cafeteria (she works for pepsico) etc.
me: Are you a party girl?
her: No, actually I’m not….no I’m just kidding I am.
me: Where do you like to go?
her: X. that’s why I moved out there. I like X and Y.
me: Oh yea? I’ve never been to Y.
her: You have to go there!
me: Oh yea we should definitely go *kino touch the shoulder*
her: Yea, sure.
me: Gimme your # so we can set it up.
her: *proceeds to give me her #*

Where as when I make small talk and then at the end ask for the #, regardless of whether I’m in the zone or RAFC, it doesn’t work nearly as well.

I will say that I was surprised at the all-purpose number close as you’re not asking for her number, and it doesn’t seem to live up to the Gambler eliteness I’ve come to know and love.

I like the putting your number into her phone bit because if a girl asks for my number I’m usually like “Well, here just give me yours, that will make it easier.” or something similar, but a lot of times if I call I have gotten voice mail and never an answer, like you said. I wonder, what’s a good way to do this without taking her phone? A way to get her to do it?

All in all this is a GREAT post. I also definitely recommend the $1 deal for the Approaching Confidence mp3 alone although the Stealth Attraction videos that come with it have definitely taken my post-comfort game to the next level.

I say post-comfort game because I notice when I generate attraction using those kino methods I find that while I gain attraction enough to have the girl giving her # on a silver platter, the attraction often dissipates when I’m not with her.

By: jh

jh — Fri, 29 Jan 2010 13:19:44 +0000

This seems like pretty standard afc chat up to me. I don’t like the idea of asking her questions- it makes her feel like the prize rather than me. Yes its good to say ‘give me your number’ rather than ask for it, but the rest of the sample interaction has way too many questions. A better approach would be to get the same information using cold read statements, something I use regularly to great effect. Eg. ‘Now something tells me you’re the sort of girl who is into chick flick’s (teasing//neg). She will almost certainly get curious and ask why you say that, then that gives opportunity for more cold read. Another line I use after a very brief introduction in bars/cubs is (said with a smile- v important to smile) ‘you look a bit out of place in here’. Try it – its a killer line- she will climb the walls trying to find out why you said it:-)

By: Matthew Graham

Matthew Graham — Wed, 21 Oct 2009 17:18:38 +0000

1, why don’t you get a life and get off of your computer. You know whatever your views on Gambler or the PUA community, if you don’t have something constructive to say don’t say anything. What have you done lately to help someone better themselves in an area they have troubles in. Get a a girlfriend or boyfriend which ever you prefer and go do something constructive with your life.

By: 1

Wed, 21 Oct 2009 17:13:29 +0000

to be honest. all of gambler’s ‘ex-girlfriends’ are clearly just whores to be honest. any woman who would get with a guy that calls himself a ‘pua’ must be a slut.

By: Robert

Robert — Tue, 20 Oct 2009 20:41:13 +0000

very very very good!!!

Great article!!!

thanks gambler!!

I will put this in practice…

By: Feliciano

Feliciano — Sun, 02 Aug 2009 18:03:58 +0000

Great Article Richard A++++
Mr. Peter that Usual happen went report is missing in not connecting with someone. So at some level, showing that you’re like another person will allow the other person to feel safe and comfortable around you and so be happier to communicate and share ideas.
Tried this next time send text message creating High Value be funny show confer. Used Phrases like, “Wow you sure are a feisty on” call this # Eight one three-five two six-XXXX………ha-ha If she is not respond text again
Or Did we go to elementary school together? If she is not responding text again. Or REPLAY WITH: You don’t have to impress me. I already think you are cool just the way you are ….ha-ha
Or I think you know my friend? Wait for respond Send text REPLAY WITH: Tom…haha {name} seem kinda nerdy in fun way…ha-ha

If she is feisty in the text message REPLAY WITH: Calm down there cowgirl, I’m just having some fun…call this # :D Or You’re kinda cute when you’re all riled up ha-ha

Make it fun Tension + Cocky = Attraction……Cheers

By: Peter

Peter — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 18:07:01 +0000

Hey man thanks for the great suggestion I actually tried a technique very similar to that and got a number from this hot girl. Everything is cool but now she’s acting kind of strange not answering her phone and doesn’t call back when I leave messages, so what would you suggest for this kind of behavior get back and let me know, thanks..

By: Website Maintenance

Website Maintenance — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 11:15:54 +0000

Also should I always leave a voice-mail when the girl does not answer? What should I say in the voice-message? I don’t want to sound unconfident or desperate.

By: mioleseke

mioleseke — Thu, 23 Apr 2009 01:56:42 +0000

hello! I really appreciate all the suggestions given above and thank u for that. I just met a hot girl, she seems cool at the beginning but now start behaving a bit strangely. i don’t thing i did something wrong. the problem is she is originally from iran altough born in europe and she’s always with those iranians friend who might not like to see her in company of a black man. I used ur suggestion but it didn’t work. she only promess to add me up on her facebook which she hasn’t done yet. what should i do to establish a strong connection and get her number?