Comments on: how to easily get her number (fast) http://www.puatraining.com/puablog/1908/06/how-to-easily-get-her-number-fast/ The Most Active Pick Up Artist Seduction Blog on the Planet Tue, 07 Feb 2012 14:33:27 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Gregory Magarshak http://www.puatraining.com/puablog/1908/06/how-to-easily-get-her-number-fast/#comment-6962 Gregory Magarshak Wed, 10 Nov 2010 12:49:02 +0000 http://www.puatraining.com/puablog/?p=1306#comment-6962 That is definitely true. I wanted to share what I think is the shortest way to a solid number: 1) Display excellence in something that interests her 2) When asked about it, give unsatisfactory answers (this is key!) 3) When pressed further, ask questions about her before answering, which make her feel good. Examples: "Listen, let me ask you something. What is your favorite band? When was the last time you went to a concert of theirs?" (assuming your excellence was in music) 4) Then take turns revealing more about yourself, and asking her deeper and deeper questions which PUAs call "qualification" Examples: "Yeah, I started when I was around 14 ... haha, what did you do when you were 14? Come on, tell me something you were really good at when you were a teenager" or "So tell me a little about you. You seem like you're a bit of an artist. ... Oh yeah, anything I might have seen? ;-)" Finally 5) Bring up the topic that you're excellent in, but this time in actionable present terms. Find something you both like, and make plans. The formula is something like: "Hey check it out, there's a ____________ happening next week(1). I would be really cool to show you ___________.(2) You should come with me.(3) ... Awesome!(4), what's the best way of staying in touch?(5)" There are 5 subtle things here which are designed to maximize the chances of her saying yes, but you can probably break all 5 at this point, because if you really built a connection and she's really impressed by whatever it is you do, it would set up a great date, as you will be showing her more about stuff you're good at. As Will Smith says, "take her somewhere you are COMPETENT." The 5 things are: (1) don't make it too specific to lower chances of her saying no purely out of scheduling conflicts (2) imply you are planning to put in some effort, before asking for something -- a subtle sign of respect (3) expect her to agree and be on the same page, instead of fast-talking your way to a number (4) reinforce the yes to a mutual YES! so it sticks out more in her mind -- and yours, btw :) Plus it's fun. (5) Get HER to tell YOU the best way of staying in touch, since you never know this girl's individual preferences. And that's all boys and girls. I would say this is the most solid close. You could talk for a little bit more and leaving on a high note -- although this is a high note in itself, it's not clear whether leaving right after getting someone's number sends a bad message. Some say it makes you more mysterious and your time is valuable. Some say it subconsciously makes her think you were only after the number. With this particular number exchange, I would say you've talked to her enough, and you should leave right away before you mess something up. The only other thing you could do is for the both of you to go back and re-engage her friends for a bit, so they can meet your friends, and everyone can see you're a good solid guy -- so her friends don't later go "who is this dude you just met?" One last tip ... if she decides to bring her friend, know that AHEAD of time so you can bring someone of the opposite gender on the date also. Okay that's all Greg That is definitely true. I wanted to share what I think is the shortest way to a solid number:

1) Display excellence in something that interests her
2) When asked about it, give unsatisfactory answers (this is key!)
3) When pressed further, ask questions about her before answering, which make her feel good.

Examples:
“Listen, let me ask you something. What is your favorite band? When was the last time you went to a concert of theirs?” (assuming your excellence was in music)

4) Then take turns revealing more about yourself, and asking her deeper and deeper questions which PUAs call “qualification”

Examples:
“Yeah, I started when I was around 14 … haha, what did you do when you were 14? Come on, tell me something you were really good at when you were a teenager”
or
“So tell me a little about you. You seem like you’re a bit of an artist. … Oh yeah, anything I might have seen? ;-)”

Finally

5) Bring up the topic that you’re excellent in, but this time in actionable present terms. Find something you both like, and make plans. The formula is something like:

“Hey check it out, there’s a ____________ happening next week(1). I would be really cool to show you ___________.(2) You should come with me.(3) … Awesome!(4), what’s the best way of staying in touch?(5)”

There are 5 subtle things here which are designed to maximize the chances of her saying yes, but you can probably break all 5 at this point, because if you really built a connection and she’s really impressed by whatever it is you do, it would set up a great date, as you will be showing her more about stuff you’re good at. As Will Smith says, “take her somewhere you are COMPETENT.”

The 5 things are:
(1) don’t make it too specific to lower chances of her saying no purely out of scheduling conflicts
(2) imply you are planning to put in some effort, before asking for something — a subtle sign of respect
(3) expect her to agree and be on the same page, instead of fast-talking your way to a number
(4) reinforce the yes to a mutual YES! so it sticks out more in her mind — and yours, btw :) Plus it’s fun.
(5) Get HER to tell YOU the best way of staying in touch, since you never know this girl’s individual preferences.

And that’s all boys and girls. I would say this is the most solid close. You could talk for a little bit more and leaving on a high note — although this is a high note in itself, it’s not clear whether leaving right after getting someone’s number sends a bad message. Some say it makes you more mysterious and your time is valuable. Some say it subconsciously makes her think you were only after the number.

With this particular number exchange, I would say you’ve talked to her enough, and you should leave right away before you mess something up. The only other thing you could do is for the both of you to go back and re-engage her friends for a bit, so they can meet your friends, and everyone can see you’re a good solid guy — so her friends don’t later go “who is this dude you just met?”

One last tip … if she decides to bring her friend, know that AHEAD of time so you can bring someone of the opposite gender on the date also.

Okay that’s all
Greg

]]> By: Brent Johnson http://www.puatraining.com/puablog/1908/06/how-to-easily-get-her-number-fast/#comment-6541 Brent Johnson Tue, 14 Sep 2010 03:17:52 +0000 http://www.puatraining.com/puablog/?p=1306#comment-6541 I have had some luck with giving girls my number and telling them to call me. The first thing I do if im in a loud club is ask them to come outside with me if they say they dont want to its not a big deal. Just tell them they can have your number and call u when they are ready to go outside. From this point I will give them my number and tell them to call my phone as well so I can put there number in my phone. There u go u have her number, and if your really good at it she will call u late that night and u will end up meeting up with her. Ok u might think this wont work, but think about it what girl will say no to taking your number none they will always take your number. Then from there you have her phone in your hand putting your number in it. You can always just press talk and hand it back to her saying you are just going to save her number in your phone as well. I have had some luck with giving girls my number and telling them to call me. The first thing I do if im in a loud club is ask them to come outside with me if they say they dont want to its not a big deal. Just tell them they can have your number and call u when they are ready to go outside. From this point I will give them my number and tell them to call my phone as well so I can put there number in my phone. There u go u have her number, and if your really good at it she will call u late that night and u will end up meeting up with her. Ok u might think this wont work, but think about it what girl will say no to taking your number none they will always take your number. Then from there you have her phone in your hand putting your number in it. You can always just press talk and hand it back to her saying you are just going to save her number in your phone as well.

]]> By: sarah http://www.puatraining.com/puablog/1908/06/how-to-easily-get-her-number-fast/#comment-6412 sarah Wed, 18 Aug 2010 03:56:52 +0000 http://www.puatraining.com/puablog/?p=1306#comment-6412 How life should go to share all of thing to whom.it is req. give some tip for girl. How life should go to share all of thing to whom.it is req. give some tip for girl.

]]> By: Foxwalk http://www.puatraining.com/puablog/1908/06/how-to-easily-get-her-number-fast/#comment-6242 Foxwalk Tue, 13 Jul 2010 18:22:21 +0000 http://www.puatraining.com/puablog/?p=1306#comment-6242 This is really good advice. I actually have discovered this on my own by just talking with different girls. I actually did something very similar to the club X/Y one above, that went like this: ...talking to her about why she was in the cafeteria (she works for pepsico) etc. me: Are you a party girl? her: No, actually I'm not....no I'm just kidding I am. me: Where do you like to go? her: X. that's why I moved out there. I like X and Y. me: Oh yea? I've never been to Y. her: You have to go there! me: Oh yea we should definitely go *kino touch the shoulder* her: Yea, sure. me: Gimme your # so we can set it up. her: *proceeds to give me her #* Where as when I make small talk and then at the end ask for the #, regardless of whether I'm in the zone or RAFC, it doesn't work nearly as well. I will say that I was surprised at the all-purpose number close as you're not asking for her number, and it doesn't seem to live up to the Gambler eliteness I've come to know and love. I like the putting your number into her phone bit because if a girl asks for my number I'm usually like "Well, here just give me yours, that will make it easier." or something similar, but a lot of times if I call I have gotten voice mail and never an answer, like you said. I wonder, what's a good way to do this without taking her phone? A way to get her to do it? All in all this is a GREAT post. I also definitely recommend the $1 deal for the Approaching Confidence mp3 alone although the Stealth Attraction videos that come with it have definitely taken my post-comfort game to the next level. I say post-comfort game because I notice when I generate attraction using those kino methods I find that while I gain attraction enough to have the girl giving her # on a silver platter, the attraction often dissipates when I'm not with her. This is really good advice. I actually have discovered this on my own by just talking with different girls. I actually did something very similar to the club X/Y one above, that went like this:

…talking to her about why she was in the cafeteria (she works for pepsico) etc.
me: Are you a party girl?
her: No, actually I’m not….no I’m just kidding I am.
me: Where do you like to go?
her: X. that’s why I moved out there. I like X and Y.
me: Oh yea? I’ve never been to Y.
her: You have to go there!
me: Oh yea we should definitely go *kino touch the shoulder*
her: Yea, sure.
me: Gimme your # so we can set it up.
her: *proceeds to give me her #*

Where as when I make small talk and then at the end ask for the #, regardless of whether I’m in the zone or RAFC, it doesn’t work nearly as well.

I will say that I was surprised at the all-purpose number close as you’re not asking for her number, and it doesn’t seem to live up to the Gambler eliteness I’ve come to know and love.

I like the putting your number into her phone bit because if a girl asks for my number I’m usually like “Well, here just give me yours, that will make it easier.” or something similar, but a lot of times if I call I have gotten voice mail and never an answer, like you said. I wonder, what’s a good way to do this without taking her phone? A way to get her to do it?

All in all this is a GREAT post. I also definitely recommend the $1 deal for the Approaching Confidence mp3 alone although the Stealth Attraction videos that come with it have definitely taken my post-comfort game to the next level.

I say post-comfort game because I notice when I generate attraction using those kino methods I find that while I gain attraction enough to have the girl giving her # on a silver platter, the attraction often dissipates when I’m not with her.

]]> By: jh http://www.puatraining.com/puablog/1908/06/how-to-easily-get-her-number-fast/#comment-5392 jh Fri, 29 Jan 2010 13:19:44 +0000 http://www.puatraining.com/puablog/?p=1306#comment-5392 This seems like pretty standard afc chat up to me. I don't like the idea of asking her questions- it makes her feel like the prize rather than me. Yes its good to say 'give me your number' rather than ask for it, but the rest of the sample interaction has way too many questions. A better approach would be to get the same information using cold read statements, something I use regularly to great effect. Eg. 'Now something tells me you're the sort of girl who is into chick flick's (teasing//neg). She will almost certainly get curious and ask why you say that, then that gives opportunity for more cold read. Another line I use after a very brief introduction in bars/cubs is (said with a smile- v important to smile) 'you look a bit out of place in here'. Try it - its a killer line- she will climb the walls trying to find out why you said it:-) This seems like pretty standard afc chat up to me. I don’t like the idea of asking her questions- it makes her feel like the prize rather than me. Yes its good to say ‘give me your number’ rather than ask for it, but the rest of the sample interaction has way too many questions. A better approach would be to get the same information using cold read statements, something I use regularly to great effect. Eg. ‘Now something tells me you’re the sort of girl who is into chick flick’s (teasing//neg). She will almost certainly get curious and ask why you say that, then that gives opportunity for more cold read. Another line I use after a very brief introduction in bars/cubs is (said with a smile- v important to smile) ‘you look a bit out of place in here’. Try it – its a killer line- she will climb the walls trying to find out why you said it:-)

]]> By: Matthew Graham http://www.puatraining.com/puablog/1908/06/how-to-easily-get-her-number-fast/#comment-4646 Matthew Graham Wed, 21 Oct 2009 17:18:38 +0000 http://www.puatraining.com/puablog/?p=1306#comment-4646 1, why don't you get a life and get off of your computer. You know whatever your views on Gambler or the PUA community, if you don't have something constructive to say don't say anything. What have you done lately to help someone better themselves in an area they have troubles in. Get a a girlfriend or boyfriend which ever you prefer and go do something constructive with your life. 1, why don’t you get a life and get off of your computer. You know whatever your views on Gambler or the PUA community, if you don’t have something constructive to say don’t say anything. What have you done lately to help someone better themselves in an area they have troubles in. Get a a girlfriend or boyfriend which ever you prefer and go do something constructive with your life.

]]> By: 1 http://www.puatraining.com/puablog/1908/06/how-to-easily-get-her-number-fast/#comment-4645 1 Wed, 21 Oct 2009 17:13:29 +0000 http://www.puatraining.com/puablog/?p=1306#comment-4645 to be honest. all of gambler's 'ex-girlfriends' are clearly just whores to be honest. any woman who would get with a guy that calls himself a 'pua' must be a slut. to be honest. all of gambler’s ‘ex-girlfriends’ are clearly just whores to be honest. any woman who would get with a guy that calls himself a ‘pua’ must be a slut.

]]> By: Robert http://www.puatraining.com/puablog/1908/06/how-to-easily-get-her-number-fast/#comment-4641 Robert Tue, 20 Oct 2009 20:41:13 +0000 http://www.puatraining.com/puablog/?p=1306#comment-4641 very very very good!!! Great article!!! thanks gambler!! I will put this in practice... very very very good!!!

Great article!!!

thanks gambler!!

I will put this in practice…

]]> By: Feliciano http://www.puatraining.com/puablog/1908/06/how-to-easily-get-her-number-fast/#comment-4046 Feliciano Sun, 02 Aug 2009 18:03:58 +0000 http://www.puatraining.com/puablog/?p=1306#comment-4046 Great Article Richard A++++ Mr. Peter that Usual happen went report is missing in not connecting with someone. So at some level, showing that you're like another person will allow the other person to feel safe and comfortable around you and so be happier to communicate and share ideas. Tried this next time send text message creating High Value be funny show confer. Used Phrases like, “Wow you sure are a feisty on” call this # Eight one three-five two six-XXXX………ha-ha If she is not respond text again Or Did we go to elementary school together? If she is not responding text again. Or REPLAY WITH: You don’t have to impress me. I already think you are cool just the way you are ….ha-ha Or I think you know my friend? Wait for respond Send text REPLAY WITH: Tom…haha {name} seem kinda nerdy in fun way…ha-ha If she is feisty in the text message REPLAY WITH: Calm down there cowgirl, I’m just having some fun…call this # :D Or You’re kinda cute when you’re all riled up ha-ha Make it fun Tension + Cocky = Attraction......Cheers Great Article Richard A++++
Mr. Peter that Usual happen went report is missing in not connecting with someone. So at some level, showing that you’re like another person will allow the other person to feel safe and comfortable around you and so be happier to communicate and share ideas.
Tried this next time send text message creating High Value be funny show confer. Used Phrases like, “Wow you sure are a feisty on” call this # Eight one three-five two six-XXXX………ha-ha If she is not respond text again
Or Did we go to elementary school together? If she is not responding text again. Or REPLAY WITH: You don’t have to impress me. I already think you are cool just the way you are ….ha-ha
Or I think you know my friend? Wait for respond Send text REPLAY WITH: Tom…haha {name} seem kinda nerdy in fun way…ha-ha

If she is feisty in the text message REPLAY WITH: Calm down there cowgirl, I’m just having some fun…call this # :D Or You’re kinda cute when you’re all riled up ha-ha

Make it fun Tension + Cocky = Attraction……Cheers

]]> By: Peter http://www.puatraining.com/puablog/1908/06/how-to-easily-get-her-number-fast/#comment-3727 Peter Thu, 11 Jun 2009 18:07:01 +0000 http://www.puatraining.com/puablog/?p=1306#comment-3727 Hey man thanks for the great suggestion I actually tried a technique very similar to that and got a number from this hot girl. Everything is cool but now she's acting kind of strange not answering her phone and doesn't call back when I leave messages, so what would you suggest for this kind of behavior get back and let me know, thanks.. Hey man thanks for the great suggestion I actually tried a technique very similar to that and got a number from this hot girl. Everything is cool but now she’s acting kind of strange not answering her phone and doesn’t call back when I leave messages, so what would you suggest for this kind of behavior get back and let me know, thanks..

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