Comments on: Approach Anxiety? http://www.puatraining.com/puablog/1998/04/approach-anxiety-2/ The Most Active Pick Up Artist Seduction Blog on the Planet Tue, 07 Feb 2012 14:33:27 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: bekele http://www.puatraining.com/puablog/1998/04/approach-anxiety-2/#comment-7220 bekele Thu, 30 Dec 2010 02:35:06 +0000 http://www.puatraining.com/puablog/?p=1377#comment-7220 wonderful truth wonderful truth

]]> By: neil http://www.puatraining.com/puablog/1998/04/approach-anxiety-2/#comment-6897 neil Wed, 27 Oct 2010 23:11:04 +0000 http://www.puatraining.com/puablog/?p=1377#comment-6897 i have always been very selective in which kinda women i've wanted to approach and thanks to that i've been out of PU for nearly an entire year waiting for that type of chick to come along. Lightbulbs have just been flicking on inside my head thanks to you Gambler you are incredible and very true. Thank you i will definitely improve my standards this weeked :D AWE! i have always been very selective in which kinda women i’ve wanted to approach and thanks to that i’ve been out of PU for nearly an entire year waiting for that type of chick to come along. Lightbulbs have just been flicking on inside my head thanks to you Gambler you are incredible and very true. Thank you i will definitely improve my standards this weeked :D AWE!

]]> By: jake1 http://www.puatraining.com/puablog/1998/04/approach-anxiety-2/#comment-6377 jake1 Fri, 06 Aug 2010 07:05:55 +0000 http://www.puatraining.com/puablog/?p=1377#comment-6377 done right, both direct and indirect approaches yield excellent results. a PUA shouldn't focus on the actual approach... the goal is to develop "PUA Reflex". however for someone with major approach anxiety issues i would suggest indirect approach. there's nothing as dicouraging as getting over approach anxiety, going direct and getting blown out, that drops your confidence levels to below zero. only go direct if you have the confidence to be blown out and still continue sarging. done right, both direct and indirect approaches yield excellent results. a PUA shouldn’t focus on the actual approach… the goal is to develop “PUA Reflex”. however for someone with major approach anxiety issues i would suggest indirect approach. there’s nothing as dicouraging as getting over approach anxiety, going direct and getting blown out, that drops your confidence levels to below zero. only go direct if you have the confidence to be blown out and still continue sarging.

]]> By: Daniel http://www.puatraining.com/puablog/1998/04/approach-anxiety-2/#comment-6128 Daniel Tue, 22 Jun 2010 14:20:22 +0000 http://www.puatraining.com/puablog/?p=1377#comment-6128 Indirect approaches work when used properly. Direct approaches mostly lead too rejection these days. Especially in Australia.. where im from. Indirect approaches are about coming in from under the radar WITHOUT giving away ur intentions. Direct approaches are way too predictable for women these days, even when you dont come across as needy these days. Indirect approaches are about showing that they are just another person and youve got better things to worry about and in the meantime prove your not a AFC. Indirect approaches work when used properly. Direct approaches mostly lead too rejection these days. Especially in Australia.. where im from. Indirect approaches are about coming in from under the radar WITHOUT giving away ur intentions. Direct approaches are way too predictable for women these days, even when you dont come across as needy these days.
Indirect approaches are about showing that they are just another person and youve got better things to worry about and in the meantime prove your not a AFC.

]]> By: Daniel http://www.puatraining.com/puablog/1998/04/approach-anxiety-2/#comment-6127 Daniel Tue, 22 Jun 2010 14:16:20 +0000 http://www.puatraining.com/puablog/?p=1377#comment-6127 Agreed about indirect approaches. Simply spotting girls in a line at a bar then pulling up next to them and ordering while throwing a few words in is perfect. You come across with a goal of purchasing a drink (not coming across too needy) and you've just opened so throughout the rest of the night when you see her uve already broken the ice. Which can lead you into meeting her whole group Agreed about indirect approaches.
Simply spotting girls in a line at a bar then pulling up next to them and ordering while throwing a few words in is perfect. You come across with a goal of purchasing a drink (not coming across too needy) and you’ve just opened so throughout the rest of the night when you see her uve already broken the ice. Which can lead you into meeting her whole group

]]> By: jh http://www.puatraining.com/puablog/1998/04/approach-anxiety-2/#comment-4994 jh Fri, 18 Dec 2009 14:26:20 +0000 http://www.puatraining.com/puablog/?p=1377#comment-4994 Re Unique ' indirect approaches are best'?? Sorry I wish it were true - life would be so much simpler- but I can't agree with that. Women are not stupid - they know as soon as a guy opens his mouth to them he is almost certainly interested in f***ing her. So all a guy does by going indirect is let her know he's too wussy to ask her straight out for a date or at least show intent, so dlv's himself. Its a well established adage in the pua community that once you start going direct , you never go indirect. Going direct takes tremendous balls, but there is a tremendous reward for that directness- i.e woman find confidence in a man more attractive than anything else under the sun... Re Unique ‘ indirect approaches are best’?? Sorry I wish it were true – life would be so much simpler- but I can’t agree with that. Women are not stupid – they know as soon as a guy opens his mouth to them he is almost certainly interested in f***ing her. So all a guy does by going indirect is let her know he’s too wussy to ask her straight out for a date or at least show intent, so dlv’s himself.
Its a well established adage in the pua community that once you start going direct , you never go indirect. Going direct takes tremendous balls, but there is a tremendous reward for that directness- i.e woman find confidence in a man more attractive than anything else under the sun…

]]> By: Perfection http://www.puatraining.com/puablog/1998/04/approach-anxiety-2/#comment-3806 Perfection Wed, 24 Jun 2009 23:14:40 +0000 http://www.puatraining.com/puablog/?p=1377#comment-3806 Hiya Richard,I totally agree with every thing you say,yet again you don't seem to disappoint me with your amazing knowledge,thanks again mate ,keeep um coming Hiya Richard,I totally agree with every thing you say,yet again you don’t seem to disappoint me with your amazing knowledge,thanks again mate ,keeep um coming

]]> By: Dave http://www.puatraining.com/puablog/1998/04/approach-anxiety-2/#comment-3710 Dave Mon, 08 Jun 2009 22:45:01 +0000 http://www.puatraining.com/puablog/?p=1377#comment-3710 "Approach course"?.....what is that? I haven't seen it advertised “Approach course”?…..what is that? I haven’t seen it advertised

]]> By: Unique http://www.puatraining.com/puablog/1998/04/approach-anxiety-2/#comment-3068 Unique Fri, 27 Mar 2009 15:33:23 +0000 http://www.puatraining.com/puablog/?p=1377#comment-3068 Indirect approaches are the best, I love them. I always try and comment on the environment around me, example: I was in Starbucks one morning and a hot girl was behind me in the queue, I looked over my shoulder and the conversation went like this: Me: There are so many coffees to choose from, which one would you recommend? HB: I'm not really a coffee person, but I would recommend Caffe Latte. Me: Really? What does that consist of? (Even though I knew the answer, I buy it almost every morning, ha, ha). HB: It consists of bla, bla, bla. (She went into one). Me: Cool. So are you a tea or a coffee person? HB: I'm definately a tea person, totally. Me: The reason I asked is because I have a theory that people who tend to drink coffee are bouncy like puppies and people who tend to drink tea are calm like cats (God bless PUA Reflex, ha, ha, ha). HB: (Smiles) Really? That is interesting! Me: (Smiling back)There you go. Ok, I will try the Caffe Latte, but if I don't happen to like it, I will hold you responsible. HB: Ha, ha, ha. Now the mistake I did here was I didn't introduce myself, I just ordered my Caffe Latte and left, and I still kick myself today for not number closing. But on the other hand, I learnt that a coffee opener can take you far, and I now know how I would prolong it for next time. Have a great day PUA's and spread the love. Indirect approaches are the best, I love them. I always try and comment on the environment around me, example: I was in Starbucks one morning and a hot girl was behind me in the queue, I looked over my shoulder and the conversation went like this:

Me: There are so many coffees to choose from, which one would you recommend?
HB: I’m not really a coffee person, but I would recommend Caffe Latte.
Me: Really? What does that consist of? (Even though I knew the answer, I buy it almost every morning, ha, ha).
HB: It consists of bla, bla, bla. (She went into one).
Me: Cool. So are you a tea or a coffee person?
HB: I’m definately a tea person, totally.
Me: The reason I asked is because I have a theory that people who tend to drink coffee are bouncy like puppies and people who tend to drink tea are calm like cats (God bless PUA Reflex, ha, ha, ha).
HB: (Smiles) Really? That is interesting!
Me: (Smiling back)There you go. Ok, I will try the Caffe Latte, but if I don’t happen to like it, I will hold you responsible.
HB: Ha, ha, ha.

Now the mistake I did here was I didn’t introduce myself, I just ordered my Caffe Latte and left, and I still kick myself today for not number closing. But on the other hand, I learnt that a coffee opener can take you far, and I now know how I would prolong it for next time. Have a great day PUA’s and spread the love.

]]> By: Gary http://www.puatraining.com/puablog/1998/04/approach-anxiety-2/#comment-2563 Gary Wed, 28 Jan 2009 01:30:59 +0000 http://www.puatraining.com/puablog/?p=1377#comment-2563 Yeap I agree. You gotta smile, even if its with your eyes or just your cheeks, approaching is easy, its the talking and not hovering around her like a fly do shit that is the hard part. Well not really, once you get it in your head that you can either be her friend or this nice guy of the day to start out with, its not like you can't see her again, and again, to build report. Its like this girl who walks her german shepard, its much bigger than my dog, we started out by just pointing at eachothers dogs, a week later we started talking, a week later we started , but if you thinking oh I'll just speak to her later, WTF do it now so that way you can move on quickly to get the next one, law of averages at play here, boost your average! However if you are more than likely not going to be able to ever see her again, DIG DEEP AND PUT IT IN BOYS! go up and speak to her, even if you do make a complete dick of yourself and stutter and stroke your face and pull your shirt or just go aw fuck it and and bolt away, you tried! and that lays at least one brick of your yellow brick road of females soon to be vulture-ing you! My friend started out by asking his own friends for their numbers! then he moved on to buying nicer shirts, now when he gets wasted and anyone says anything to him its instantly 'oh whats your number! but don't be a copycat with all this online material, grab it, flip it, evolve it like a pokemon! sul Yeap I agree. You gotta smile, even if its with your eyes or just your cheeks, approaching is easy, its the talking and not hovering around her like a fly do shit that is the hard part. Well not really, once you get it in your head that you can either be her friend or this nice guy of the day to start out with, its not like you can’t see her again, and again, to build report. Its like this girl who walks her german shepard, its much bigger than my dog, we started out by just pointing at eachothers dogs, a week later we started talking, a week later we started , but if you thinking oh I’ll just speak to her later, WTF do it now so that way you can move on quickly to get the next one, law of averages at play here, boost your average! However if you are more than likely not going to be able to ever see her again, DIG DEEP AND PUT IT IN BOYS! go up and speak to her, even if you do make a complete dick of yourself and stutter and stroke your face and pull your shirt or just go aw fuck it and and bolt away, you tried! and that lays at least one brick of your yellow brick road of females soon to be vulture-ing you! My friend started out by asking his own friends for their numbers! then he moved on to buying nicer shirts, now when he gets wasted and anyone says anything to him its instantly ‘oh whats your number! but don’t be a copycat with all this online material, grab it, flip it, evolve it like a pokemon!

sul

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