Let’s say you’ve improved your game. Let’s say you’re comfortable picking up girls in Starbucks. Let’s say you’ve pulled in a quiet bar and maybe you’ve even managed to charm the cute girl you met in the frozen food aisle at Tesco… Not bad, but the nightclub will still be one of the best hunting grounds and the environment there is a little different. How do you approach a girl who can’t hear you and is dancing with her friends? Sound tough? I have good news for you – it isn’t. It’s easy – and it’s fun, too.
The first thing you need to do is to differentiate yourself from the other guys on the dance floor. The best way to do this is to avoid all the mistakes that they are making. The odds are good that they will be making one of the following errors:
- Just loitering around the girls, checking them out, not dancing;
- Trying to get to the girls while only half-heartedly making an attempt to dance; and
- Grinding on a girl’s ass.
All bad. Very bad. The result of these kinds of approaches will be variable, but none of them will get anything that I’d recommend. You’ll only attract certain kinds of girl (I’m being diplomatic here) responding to approaches like these and that kind is not the sort that you are after.
So now you know what not to do, how do you actually pick-up girls on the dancefloor? Here’s how:
- Have fun dancing around. Don’t try to get near your target.
- Enjoy yourself and enjoy the music. A guy having fun on the dance-floor immediately stands out. Women will move away from the weird guys and gather around you.
- Mirror your target’s dancing in an exaggerated, funny way. Make eye contact with her and force a positive reaction. When you’ve done that you can move in and dance with her;
- Have a “dance-off.” Gesture to get her attention, bust a silly little move, and then point at her expectantly. If she reacts positively, you can move in and dance with her;
- On the edge of the dance-floor with girls that are not quite dancing, ask if they like to dance. If they say yes, ask if they like salsa. Don’t give them a chance to answer as you take them by the hand and start dancing with them. You only need a few salsa lessons to master the basic steps and those are all that you need.
The goal on the dance floor is to dance with them, escalate physically a little bit, and then lead them to a quieter location where she is isolated and you can talk to her. Sit down or go to the bar with her.
When you have mastered dance-floor game, you’ll be able to pick-up women non-verbally in a highly sexual environment. It’s a rare skill and you’ll quickly see results. It’s tricky to explain everything about this talent without being able to show you a demonstration.
A lot of guys are intimidated by the dancefloor and noisy clubs. The Stealth Attraction Method was designed specifically for just those places…and it works like crazy. Check it out as part of our PUA Power Pack.
Until next time,
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Hi Gambler,
Probably you know that your advice adds quality value to the lifes of many guys. I just wanted you to know that from my side.
Much cheers
I just got your book in the mail. Read half of it already. Great content. Great f’n blog and you are quite the smart marketer indeed. Thanks for sharing the great information mate.
Cheers guys! We’ve got more great stuff coming!
Yea that salsa move bit is awesome. I have been using that in college and the girls eat it up. Not very many guys do that, it makes you stand out.
I;m a pasionate bodyjammer dancer…i love to show my moves on the dancefloor…Speaking of dancefloor game .i really mist out a few aportunities with a hb,that was come closer to me wen i was backing off,and i just kept on dancing untill i need to buy a drink,I lag the curage to play with her ,It was so so ovious that she was into me in order to avoid the horney guys that was bullying her…Oh my god These r really good moments of taking action…But i did nothing just a wink wen i was eating a hamburger outside the disco after we all retreat back to the cars,and past her suddenley
Cool! ive been utilising some of this dancefloor game without even realising it, haha, Cheers Gambler!
Though a huge sticking point ive had recently is that although my dancefloor rapport is good, and in the past 2 weeks i have taken two separate girls by the hand to a quieter location HOWEVER both times friends have either followed us or have appeared and dragged the girl away mid conversation!
Whats the best way around this?
G
So you ask to dance salsa no matter what music is on? Even hip hop or something? I’d imagine that’d be kinda funny and playful.
Oh and Gary, great question, how to deal with the blockers/floaters, someone please explain.
I have the same question as George. most clubs here play hip hop and R n B so i dont know how to start dancing salsa!
absolutely genius!
I’ve read it and I thought it was good information, but not something I allready didn’t know. It doesn’t really point out how to act when the girl is dancing with let’s say 1 or 2 other girls and you’re dancing next to your mate. That’s the situation that I find myself into the most on the dancefloor. The girls look interested and are comfertable with eyecontact but I find it hard to make the move and not seclude my friend from it then because all my focus is at those girls.
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