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		<title>By: Alex Quintana</title>
		<link>http://www.puatraining.com/puablog/2002/05/how-to-get-her-to-do-whatever-you-want/#comment-7159</link>
		<dc:creator>Alex Quintana</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 09 Dec 2010 15:09:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This is a great tactic and I just used it successfully on a girl last night. In this case, I already knew she wanted to fuck me AND wanted to go for a drive (on Monday). I said to her &quot;let&#039;s go for a drive.&quot; she said &quot;now?! I have to get up at 8am.&quot;

I said &quot;You have to get up at 8am, but you really want to go for a drive, right?&quot; She said yes. Then I said let&#039;s do it.

Weasel phrases are another good tactic I&#039;ve used to turn things around. Particular weasel phrases I like that work well for LMR are &quot;You really shouldn&#039;t&quot; and &quot;It&#039;s not necessary to&quot;

Example (not LMR, text):

girl: you do kung fu, really?? that&#039;s cool.
me: yeah, we should get together the next time you have class, i can show you some grapple moves.
girl: i go home on my breaks.

Now, this is a typical excuse. but this is what I said:

me: Hmm. Yeah, you really shouldn&#039;t take me home with you.
girl: lol i know I shouldn&#039;t

Mix this up with what Orion says and you can really turn things around. Note that in this example the girl has a boyfriend but now she actually asked me to hang out with her. So it went from excuse to her asking ME out. :)

Example #2 LMR. Now this is from a friend&#039;s LR, I can&#039;t take credit:

girl: I&#039;m not going to have sex with you.
guy: Of course not, it&#039;s not necessary to imagine my thick cock sliding into your pussy. *plow forward*

You can imagine what happened next :)

NLP is awesome. weasel phrases/embedded commands are an amazing way to communicate with women on their level.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is a great tactic and I just used it successfully on a girl last night. In this case, I already knew she wanted to fuck me AND wanted to go for a drive (on Monday). I said to her &#8220;let&#8217;s go for a drive.&#8221; she said &#8220;now?! I have to get up at 8am.&#8221;</p>
<p>I said &#8220;You have to get up at 8am, but you really want to go for a drive, right?&#8221; She said yes. Then I said let&#8217;s do it.</p>
<p>Weasel phrases are another good tactic I&#8217;ve used to turn things around. Particular weasel phrases I like that work well for LMR are &#8220;You really shouldn&#8217;t&#8221; and &#8220;It&#8217;s not necessary to&#8221;</p>
<p>Example (not LMR, text):</p>
<p>girl: you do kung fu, really?? that&#8217;s cool.<br />
me: yeah, we should get together the next time you have class, i can show you some grapple moves.<br />
girl: i go home on my breaks.</p>
<p>Now, this is a typical excuse. but this is what I said:</p>
<p>me: Hmm. Yeah, you really shouldn&#8217;t take me home with you.<br />
girl: lol i know I shouldn&#8217;t</p>
<p>Mix this up with what Orion says and you can really turn things around. Note that in this example the girl has a boyfriend but now she actually asked me to hang out with her. So it went from excuse to her asking ME out. :)</p>
<p>Example #2 LMR. Now this is from a friend&#8217;s LR, I can&#8217;t take credit:</p>
<p>girl: I&#8217;m not going to have sex with you.<br />
guy: Of course not, it&#8217;s not necessary to imagine my thick cock sliding into your pussy. *plow forward*</p>
<p>You can imagine what happened next :)</p>
<p>NLP is awesome. weasel phrases/embedded commands are an amazing way to communicate with women on their level.</p>
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		<title>By: 0rion</title>
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		<dc:creator>0rion</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 24 Jul 2010 16:04:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Also look up the &quot;I, You Shift&quot; very power full NPL tactic that really can flip the tables on LMR. 

Example:
You:
You know I think its interesting in a place like this (bar, party, or anywhere else) when two people are cross paths, and feel comfortable. I like to watch for that moment when they start to share a strong feeling of...(pretend to be grasping for the right word, if she is invested she will offer the verb.) 
Her: Connection, Chemistry?
You: Yeah when I see that happening (point to your self slightly) YOU really know something exciting and special is going on...

Any way if you could go anywhere where time and money were no object where would it be...(Fractionate out of the pattern and let it spread in the sub-conscious mind)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Also look up the &#8220;I, You Shift&#8221; very power full NPL tactic that really can flip the tables on LMR. </p>
<p>Example:<br />
You:<br />
You know I think its interesting in a place like this (bar, party, or anywhere else) when two people are cross paths, and feel comfortable. I like to watch for that moment when they start to share a strong feeling of&#8230;(pretend to be grasping for the right word, if she is invested she will offer the verb.)<br />
Her: Connection, Chemistry?<br />
You: Yeah when I see that happening (point to your self slightly) YOU really know something exciting and special is going on&#8230;</p>
<p>Any way if you could go anywhere where time and money were no object where would it be&#8230;(Fractionate out of the pattern and let it spread in the sub-conscious mind)</p>
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		<title>By: El Mesmo</title>
		<link>http://www.puatraining.com/puablog/2002/05/how-to-get-her-to-do-whatever-you-want/#comment-5932</link>
		<dc:creator>El Mesmo</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 29 May 2010 10:27:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>good stuff but only works when people do mean their buts and not to just be polite by giving an excuse</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>good stuff but only works when people do mean their buts and not to just be polite by giving an excuse</p>
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		<title>By: Keenan</title>
		<link>http://www.puatraining.com/puablog/2002/05/how-to-get-her-to-do-whatever-you-want/#comment-5663</link>
		<dc:creator>Keenan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 24 Apr 2010 17:15:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>That actually makes sense! So far, that little subtle knowledge will help you TREMENDOUSLY in influencing people to talk to you  further in conversation and also help them realize that your cool guy and help the girl your trying to pickup to fall for you faster than ever. Excellent job Ben! :D</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>That actually makes sense! So far, that little subtle knowledge will help you TREMENDOUSLY in influencing people to talk to you  further in conversation and also help them realize that your cool guy and help the girl your trying to pickup to fall for you faster than ever. Excellent job Ben! :D</p>
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		<title>By: TheFlarey</title>
		<link>http://www.puatraining.com/puablog/2002/05/how-to-get-her-to-do-whatever-you-want/#comment-5438</link>
		<dc:creator>TheFlarey</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Feb 2010 09:26:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great advice.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great advice.</p>
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		<title>By: Matt</title>
		<link>http://www.puatraining.com/puablog/2002/05/how-to-get-her-to-do-whatever-you-want/#comment-4465</link>
		<dc:creator>Matt</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 25 Sep 2009 16:47:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks Rich and Ben. This is fascinating. Ben, where can I find your contact details?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks Rich and Ben. This is fascinating. Ben, where can I find your contact details?</p>
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		<title>By: x</title>
		<link>http://www.puatraining.com/puablog/2002/05/how-to-get-her-to-do-whatever-you-want/#comment-3462</link>
		<dc:creator>x</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 15 May 2009 10:33:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>wow, great article! i love this kinda mind stuff. thx NLP Ben!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>wow, great article! i love this kinda mind stuff. thx NLP Ben!</p>
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		<title>By: stuff</title>
		<link>http://www.puatraining.com/puablog/2002/05/how-to-get-her-to-do-whatever-you-want/#comment-2875</link>
		<dc:creator>stuff</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Mar 2009 23:02:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>INFORMATION AVALANCHE</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>INFORMATION AVALANCHE</p>
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		<title>By: Erik</title>
		<link>http://www.puatraining.com/puablog/2002/05/how-to-get-her-to-do-whatever-you-want/#comment-2864</link>
		<dc:creator>Erik</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 15 Mar 2009 01:18:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Cool tip! Should be tryied!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Cool tip! Should be tryied!</p>
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