Could it really be possible to get her into bed without saying more than a few words?
The answer is yes. And I’ve done it.
It’s possible because body language makes up over 70% of the communication between you and her.
Now, truth be told, it’s rare that you can pull a girl on nonverbals alone…but it can be done.
But when you combine solid verbal game (which i will teach you) with my powerful bodylanguage secrets..the results are mindblowing…And your success is assured.
So let’s dive into the 6 most important body language tactics.
1. Stand still!
If you hop around from foot to foot or sway backwards and forwards when you’re talking, you’re not going to come across confidently.
It won’t matter if you are the wittiest, most intelligent raconteur at the bar – you’re going to get blown out. Luckily, this one is simple to fix: plant your feet a little wider than feels natural,in a position that corresponds with your shoulders. Feels better, doesn’t it? This is a solid base to start from, and it makes itmore difficult to move around. It’s also the base stance for most martial artists. If you want a black belt in PUA, you need to get this right.
2. Stop fidgeting!
Look in the mirror and have a conversation with someone. What doyou do with your hands when you are talking? Do you fidget with things, scratch yourself, touch your face? Stop!This is very vunattractive and it screams out that you lack confidence. Again, it’s easy to fix. Squeeze your thumb, index and forefingers together and then let your hands fall naturally to your sides.
Doing this removes the need for the fingers to be active. You can (and should) still use your hands during the conversation, but when you use them now you’ll use them consciously. As tools.
3. Head up!
Nervous guys look at their shoes. Or the floor. Or her shoes. It looks terrible. Eye contact is vital for confident communication.
Let me repeat that: eye contact is vital. Keep your head up, look her in the eye, and hold the contact. You can practice in the street – the next time you’re out, fix eyes with the girls that pass you and rather than looking away first, wait for them. If you want to up the ante a bit, give them a cheeky smile as they pass. You’ll be surprised how many smile back.
4. Make slow head movements.
Be smooth. Darting, jerking movements of the head suggest anxiety.Anxiety is unattractive. Unattractive guys don’t get laid.
Confident men move their heads with slow, subtle, languid movements as if nothing is bothering them and they are totally relaxed.
Confident guys get laid.
5. Walk slowly and smoothly
It’s not just your head movements that should be controlled and smooth – apply the same lesson to your body. Teach yourself to move with confidence and, apart from looking more confident, you’ll feel it too. When you’re in a club environment, moving slowly and with purpose really stands out – everyone else will be jittering left and right and if you can be the exception who moves with grace and style, you’ll immediately attract positive attention.
6. Hold your drink by your side
There are a couple of tips when it comes to drink. First, don’t drink too much – everything you’ve learnt will go out of the window if you’re drunk and slurring, booze-smelling guys don’t usually end up with hot babes. A couple of drinks aren’t such a bad idea but don’t hold your glass across your chest – this is a classic defensive posture and it will be noticed. Rest your glass on the bar or hold it by your side. That’s much more natural.
There you have it. My favorite bodylanguage secrets.
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Thank you very much gambler :D
Amazing stuff.
Thanks alot.
This page is getting laid!
that is good! :D
I’m getting to be a gampler too. Great stuff man.
Thanks Gambler ,I have read your book it was amazing ,I learnt a lot from that book , great read ,
hey man i was wondering if you could explain negs and the walk away method because ivebeen hearing alot about those but i havent really seen them explained
thanx alot man !!
and get back at me haha!
thanks gambler for the tips on body language, great stuff. I will try it out, next time I go to the clubs.
@ED
hey man, hope some of my notes will be of help to you. The neg is a statement that lowers a bit the value of HB or AMOG you’re in talk with, yeah? That’s a pretty straight definition by dictionary. In everyday life, it is most common for guys (non game aware, sure :) to come to a chick and start with something like “Oh, what eyes/hair/legs you’ve got”. If she is not retarded she is perfectly aware of her pros, so you get labeled as one-of-the-gray-mass-of-folks-that-approach-me-with-the-same-boring-talk. Chicks tend to set their self-esteem on their well known pros – it can be anything from flat belly to sharp tongue. If you question one of these, you’re making a neg. Time for few examples: If she’s a social star, you say to her friends “Is she like this [grin face] EVERYDAY? Good God!”. If she likes to dominate, you may say “You cannot stand to be the second one, even in the loo queue, aren’t you?”. If she’s proud of her boobs, try asking “They cannot be natural – how much did you pay for these”. If she tells you how she sacrifices herself, you shoot with likes of “Please stop, one Lord Jesus is sufficient for this crazy world”. Of course, the second very important factor is HOW do you say it. The line between showing self-confident (which is main use of the neg) and showing off or being taken for an arrogant jerk is very thin. To see how NOT to say it, please refer to Californication, season one, episode two, and the diner scene.
And the walk away method? You start a conversation with a set, and then withdraw from it within 5 minutes, under any sensible excuse. Why? Because people generally tend to engage in a playful conversation. If you cut it off, you leave them with a feeling of unfulfillment and joy at once. Which makes them crave for more. So they will approach you, or you will be welcomed again. Also, sticking with one person and set shows your lack of confidence, which we does not wanna show even if we feel like this, won’t we? To practise it, try to ignite a talk on the street – asking where is the best coffee bar around and why is it best, and then go away after 3 minutes, even without saying a word. “Oh, it’s rude” you may think. And this thought keeps you away from doing this and many other manoeuvres effectively. So – get rid of it by doing this.
All best!
Hi, cool post.
Non-verbal is the start for me. Like Bruce Lee said once “move like water” and nothing can stop you. Being fluid, adapt myself to my surrounding is my rule.
I’m being friendly and dominant when it’s needed. It must be like a tango. Teasing of your target at first, leading without fear when it’s one but at the same time being at ease to feel unbalanced when she teases back. Listen and do your best to link it to your frame.
Almost like this (without the old guy at the begining lol):
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RCkLfuokl9E&feature=related
Keep the good work.
Being drunk works for me :P it gets ell the nervousness out, but I can still focus and concentrate on doing everything else right! :D
Anyway.. I love this post! :) very helpful.. like the rest of the site ;)
Hey man, got to say the girls in your “add me to facebook” picture (top right of page), other than the girl who I think works for you in the middle, are all, how do I put this… not the hottest girls Ive ever seen, and for a dating guru thats bad form mate. Oh and how about posting some videos of you picking girls up that were not filmed around the same time the dinosaurs were walking the earth, you forgotten what to do? I would also hazard a guess that you cant even tell me the true defination of “game” is. Yes thats a challange!
Hi guys,
I red some PUA stuffs and began to sarge women.
What helps me to be confident with women is iam thinking that iam irresistible and the woman whom iam talking to already wants me!!!!
Women will feel it ;)
Quite simply if you keep your head down, stumble about knocking into things, pick at your face and stand around holding your pint like a yob, no woman is going to want to look at you let alone have sex with you.
Too much hype, not enough substance, but i guess you are selling something so….
These tips wont get a woman in bed without saying anything…This is basic how to talk to people, any people, 101…It is on the road to attraction stuff, but only down the block, half way, not at the end of the journey “this will actually get you laid” stuff…
Loved the review I thought the same I cannot challenge it in anyway. Have you got a list of your current review for me to read? I have also created some reviews for you to read on my blog…
getting there
really good material if you truly apply it = El Jaime
I HAVE A QUESTION:
If you are normally a cheerful person and LAUGH a lot, does that indicate insecurity or lack of confidence? Does it decrease my Alpha factor?
I could out-game you anyday week or time shambler! xx
Too bad this guy stole that information straight out of an ebook…. gambler = douche
I did not understand very well what you mean by this:
“4. Make slow head movements”
Did you say that in general we should move slowly, ie turn your head slowly, slowly move your arms, be relaxed in general? or simply should move deliberately, fast or slow depending on the situation is the case, what I mean, you always move slow?
i want to know how to get a girl from the same school?
This is amazing and helpful.
Guys try this.
I have lots of fun doing this. Works great!
1) First eye contact
2) force IOI (wave, smile – she reciprocates
3) act shy, look down to the floor with a boyish smile (obvious that you are just playing a shy boy, thinking dirty things:))
4) in 5 secs back to eye contact, she smiles
5) aporoach, the closer the stronger eye contact and slower pace – going directly for the kiss (hold hands)
6) kiss her for a as long as you and she are enjoying that
– then you can say “Hello”
how do you like this opener?
M. :))
@ED to add on to what ProjectWarsaw said
One of the reasons I used to compliment girls is if they would act like they’re self-conscious of their looks or don’t think they’re pretty and I would feel like I needed to compliment them to make them feel better about themselves. Well I was on Facebook one day and look at this really hot girl’s pictures that’s on my friends list, and I realized that at least 75% of the compliments on her pictures were from girls, then I flashed back to hearing girls tell each other their beautiful in real life or how great they look, and it hit me. Girls compliment each other ALL the time on their looks. Even if they’re ugly. You don’t have to do it.
I just know that was helpful for me to realize the “no compliments” rule is true for all women.
Also want to point out that a neg does not have to be DLV’ing the girl or AMOG. Neg is a negative hit. It is something you say that, while it may DLV the target, it disqualifies you in a way and leads her to believe you’re not hitting on her because a guy who was hitting on her would never do that.
Example: Mystery and the blowing nose neg. He blows his nose in front of the target and then says “What? Are you gonna just sit there and watch?” .. basically most guys who are hitting on a girl won’t do such an unattractive thing, and thus it lowers the girl’s defenses, and you can work in your game.
Richard: Great to see you offering this up for free.
Hi
Thank You.
Ur tips is very useful and very interesting.
But my color is black. Little fat also.
Pls tell me some confident tips for me
to get girls.
Once again Thank You very much.
Eye contact is best idea and we have to say to girls
that she is a beauty that v see.
always smile and keep looking their eye.
they can see.
I am not the type that drinks or goes into bars (for personal reasons). Anybody got any tips on how to do a street pickup and determining if the gals are of close age?