A Powerful Frame To Have : What Does Your Body Say?
I’ve seen a lot of talk on here about FRAME. Your frame in the interaction with HB’s.For eg, if the HB says something unnacceptable, or is shit testing you or whatever, you FRAME CONTROL it away. “Yeah cool, so whatever”Now, what is going on here? Is it natural to do this are are you using a technique? A frame control technique? To me, anything that is not natural is WEAK.
You will be found out eventually, IMHO. Also, if not done correctly it looks f^%king stupid. You look like a dork who is socially maladjusted, trying to be “alpha”. I’ve seen this out there, by the way, it;s cringeworthy.
It’s totally different from someone who GENUINELY can’t be arsed to listen to any bullshit and gives a congruent reaction. It looks WEIRD.I’ve been thinking about game recently and a key part of having a natural style is living in the moment. To me, this means just saying the first thing that comes into my head!!
Listen to what your body is telling you, what pops into your mind when someone says something to you? I think it depends on a bunch of factors : your state, how tired you are, the environment, etc etc.What about if you could just say the first thing that comes into your mind, and give your natural response with no regards to the consequenecs? Because you really don’t care? London Hunk has been posting every Tuesday about responding when a HB hits you with THIS. I find this really cool, but I was thinking : my response would be totally different depending on how I feel at any given time, what my body is telling me.Example :HB : So why do I need you as a boyfriend? What will you do for me?Me (happy relaxed and playful state) – Turn her over, smack her on the arse. “Shut up silly girl”. Smack her arse again.Me (moody and pissed off state) – Wincing. Look at her – “That’s a f$%king stupid thing to say. Shut up. Don’t say stuff like that to me again”Me (Angry state) Shut up you stupid c”^t Me (horny state) F$%K THE A&^E OFF YOU. You wouldnt f$&king believe it. Now shut up and grab my dick!Do you see where I am going with this? It’s amazingly powerful. You just wander through life, living in your own reality. Now, I am not advocating hitting people or being criminal. I used to post stupid stuff like this, and guess what? It was because I was feeling like it at that time and it amused me. Anyway, of course you can’t go around hitting people. You need to be socially adjusted and have respect for peoples boundries. An obvious one is : never f*!k around with peoples religions. Be socially aware but live in YOUR reality.