Evolution Of A PUA – Part 2 – From Ugly To Model And More

So I was making progress, and that made me happy. I was able to talk to people without going red, I got admiring looks for my clothes, and I felt good inside. I still had a lot to work on though.
4. Next came my physical looks. I was called ugly at school and college.

So what steps did I take to fix my looks? I’ve already mentioned the fashion. Next came: eyebrows, I had hair in the middle a monobrow, so I had them shaped. Hair: I asked the best hairdresser I could find (www.neilcurryhairdressing.com – thank you Neil!) if I could have hair like Tom Cruise in The Last Samura. He said “Yes” and 18 months later that’s pretty much what I have.

I modeled actors and now I can resemble Colin Farrell, Tom Cruise, or Orlando Bloom. Women will say I look like these poeple when i’m doing it. I worked hard on body language to look more cool. From being called ugly by average girls, I now get asked every week “Are you a model?”.

5. One thing that held back my confidence was my lack of qualifications. I was born in London but lived in Cambridge, place that prizes academic achievement. I signed up for lots of courses and bulked up my CV with some impressive stuff like being a Chartered Financial Analyst (CFA). Not at all related to PU but it gave me confidence.

6. By studying NLP, psychology, and hypnosis, I became more artful in my use of language and used the techniques of influence to make people like me. I was good on job interviews and started to make connections and have some success socially.

By this point, I was still useless with women, we are in mid-2005 now. I’d only slept with one girl! I started approaching sometimes in bars, very rarely got numbers, and never progressed things to a physical level.

Then in September 2005, I met Tyler Durden in Starbucks, Leicester Sq, London, and it all changed…