PUA Bootcamp Reviews: One On One With Beckster
File under “Rave Review”!
I’ve been out sarging on and off for about 18 months and, whilst I’ve had a few notable successes, in main the results have been pretty thin.
I’ve recently had a series of 1to1 sessions with Beckster, to try to improve my game.
We’ve done bar game, dance game, street game and sarged at Erotica.
Every time we’ve been out something has happened that has changed my view of what I can achieve through game.
I have:
1) f-closed 2 girls I met on the same night (something I haven’t done since the early eighties!), in both cases on the first meeting with the girls
2) met girls on the dance floor (one of whom I f-closed) – something I thought I was too old to do any more
3) met a hot girl less than half my age for six minutes in a shopping centre, exchanged a few texts, arranged a day2, bought her lunch and ended up making out with her in my apartment that day
4) got the number of the girl I found most attractive in the whole place at Erotica (and confidently expect to f-close her)
I think you could safely say I’m a satisfied customer!
I think there are a few reasons why I’ve had so much success with Beckster:
1) Beckster is very cool. When I’m out with him, I think I’m cool too and I guess it changes the way I interact with girls. He’s out there smiling chatting being friendly and I end up doing the same. He opens A LOT, often only for a quick exchange of banter, then returns later if interested. Girls have often noticed how gregarious we are, before I open them.
2) I’ve used the first hour of our sessions to strategise about the text game, phone calls and day2s I’ve been having. I’ve often got hot girls numbers in the past and failed to get day2s. That hasn’t happened at all recently. I’ve failed to f-close several of the day2′s but that’s a MUCH better problem.
3) Beckster always has a suggestion – usually several. Whatever the situation, whatever the girl has said – he’s seen it before. We’ve never failed to come up with a good plan. The failures I have had came from failing to implement the strategy.
A few other semi-random points:
1) I like Beckster’s game. I think he can teach different styles, but everything he’s taught me is basically enhancing what I already do, rather than trying to re-build me from scratch. I have mostly used my usual opinion openers (nothing different to the stuff everyone on here knows) plus Beckster has encouraged me to use situational where I can. I’ve used my usual routines (also from the public domain) plus a couple of his that I feel comfortable with. My kino style is somewhat similar to his anyway and I didn’t change it that much. I think I’ve acquired a little bit of Beckster’s body language and mannerisms with positive results.
2) He doesn’t spend a lot time wittering about inner game (thank god). We just create situations and enjoy figuring out how to make them work. Inner game improves primarily through positive feedback from practical experience
in my view.
3) Beckster is enormously positive and encouraging, but not in a ‘la la, every day and in every way you are getting better and better’ type of way. He just points out specific negative and limiting thoughts and shows why they are wrong.
4) Beckster in extremely patient (almost too patient) he was happy to follow me around while I opened throw-away sets in the shopping centre for an hour until I was ready to try and get a number. When I was, it went like a dream! Hurrah!
5) I have had an immense amount of fun with Beckster. That’s elevated my mood and changed the reaction from the girls I’ve met and of course it’s good thing in and of itself.
I’m aware that I haven’t written any blow by blow stuff about what we did or where we went. If I did you would find the conversations and locations unremarkable. It’s the same stuff I do all the time. It just worked better than usual. I think that was for the reasons given above – although I’m still slightly scratching my head!
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