Just back from an amazing 3 days with Gambler, his cousin and Anthony P. The whole 3 days were a massive eye-opener, but it was the last day that suprised me the most. Anthony P took me and WING to a strip club, it wasn’t anything like I expected at all…except for the partial nudity.
You enter, you sit down you relax. Throughout the evening youll be approached quite consistently by really beautiful women. Now for a moment imagine what its like to be an attractive woman at a normal bar. Guys approach all the time, all they want is one thing, some make it obvious from the go-point, some don’t and some…are PUAs who wait for a while and escalate. Now imagine that you are the woman and instead of s£x its money. Some girls will be right in there “Do you want a dance?” Some will talk to you for 10 minutes and some, like one girl I met, I think her name was Violet, was such an interesting person that if I wasn’t gonna stick to the rules, and had the money :P, probably would’ve paid just to sit and talk to her for the next hour. So because you have all these attractive women walking over to you, you have no approach anxiety and instead of rejection you get “Do you want a dance” that’s when her state breaks and goes back to business. You can practice in these places until you are holding the girls attention for as long as you want and then email/number close or extract her….yes there are ways. This will train you to think, “well what are you offering me” reversing the frame when you’re in the field.
Basically strip clubs are just places to practice, you have no fear of the approach and no fear of rejection, so can try out all the stuff in between. It’s not like learning to drive by playing Project Gotham 3, its more like learning to gun-fight in one of those lazer gun places.
MD