Vertex’s Mindset for successful PUAs

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So i’ve been thinking about my mindset in terms of PU. Why is MY mindset valuable?

(i) Because it’s f$%king me, that’s why. Let me tell y’all a little secret. I have met maybe 2 people in my life that I think are better with women, fundamentally better with women than me i.e they deserve better success. And it isn’t anyone on here.

(ii) It follows therefore that something is going on…I’ve re read some of my old posts and what screams out is a deep vein of insecurity that has plagued me my whole file. Plagued is a word I used advisedly, i.e it’s something OUTSIDE of me that’s f$^king with my head. Up until about 2 years ago I had a bunch of issues that were not resolved…i.e despite success with women and in some other areas, I never felt 100% WORTHY. But, at core, I ALWAYS felt that I was better than this, that I could achieve whatever I wanted in life, with women, career whatever. I felt that fundamentally that I could be great, I could achieve things that would literally make the world SIT THE F%&K UP AND NOTICE. If I saw a guy with an SHB, I thought that I deserved it (and I had pulled some very hot women by this point, though not with the same conviction or sureness that I can now)

(iii) So. In the past 18 months the Game has forced me to confront any INNER GAME issues. And hang them the f^&k out to dry. I have realised what that little core knew all along, that little bit of me that was always there, diamond hard and incorruptible:

1:/ I am superior to other men. I deserve the best in life.
2:/ I beilive, right down to my core that I am superior. And that perjhaps as much of 96 % of the worlds population are INERT. They are just pieces of meat that you need to get past. They are just…side issues
3:/ This doesn’t make me a c$%t. I have a deep vein of compassion, but if it came down to it..If the world was gonna be blown up and someone had to be saved…It would have to be me
4:/ I deserve the best in terms of women. You may know more about IT than me. You may be a big fat cat and have more money than me. But You DO NOT deserve better quality women than me, no f&%king way hose, no contest, no argument. That little core beleived this all those years ago and now that I have shelved a lot of my issues, it’s right out there now…Confront me with this and think you deserve better than me in terms of women and you’re gonna get a glass in you’re face!)
5:/ I have f£^ked some pretty damn hot women in my time. i’ve attracted a squillion hot women that most men would be damn proud of. Tony Robbins talks about references, well now that the insecurities have been shelved I have a f^%king LIBRARY of references to draw upon..So you can’t waffle all you like about technique, negs etc when faced with an SHB…What do I have? The knowledge that I have probably f^&ked a hotter girl so I really dont giuve a f£^k about her..And it shows
6:/ TRAVEL…F$&king key..DO IT. You quickly realise that..boys..it’s f%&ked up in our country. A bunch of lounging sows with no right to any quality dick, complacently marking off their choices..This is not to say that you cant pull hotties (I can and have , repeatedly), it’s just that your actual CORE VALUE is MUCH LOWER. Dont’ f%&king argue, it is. Don’t believe me? Go out 1 night in London, to a hard ass bitchy club in west end (where we have all been). Next day, get on a plane, go to a place where you are different, where you think your value may be higher that hasnt been choded out by easyjet AFC stage party f$&kwits..Compare and contrast (i) the quality of the women (you will be amazed) and (ii) your intrinsic VALUE. You will see what I am talking about.

Conclusion: I am that. I am FULLY WORTHY of 9′s and 10′s (if I ever see one, the talk on here of 10′s is f£^king laughable, I suspect VERY FEW of anyone on here has even SEEN a 9, let alone a 10!))
This is based on experience, references, things that have happened to me. And realisation that in our country it’s all f$%ked up in favour of the girls. And whatever else I said, I cannot be arsed to re-read.

p.s If you don’t realise it…Let me tell you up front…There are a lot of jokers in the PUA world. Read this, get it into your f$&king head. Don’t do what I did and doubt yourself, even for a second!
p.p.s You may think of Mystery as some high up, unnatainable goal..Well of all the PUA’s I do actually think Mystery and perhaps Juggler are the real deal..But I am pretty f^*king good when I want to be (modestly I can say as good as those guys on a good night, all being equal), so LISTEN to what I am writing here…It’s true and based on EXPERIENCE!!

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One Response to “Vertex’s Mindset for successful PUAs”

  1. Craig says:

    This is the most powerful message ever. I relate to what you say here… in the past few years & the coming year I have been & I am being challenged to define & refine my persona/identity. My core values, beliefs & targets in life.

    I am worthy, I deserve success & I am going to make it happen.

    Thank you for sharing.

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