Recently, I’ve started going to upmarket venues. I’ve met lots of guys in there who will happily spend ?1000 on a night out, and one of the main reasons they are spending that much is to get women. They order champagne and invite women to share it with them. The funny thing is, even in these cases, the guys often don’t get anywhere. They say “I’m an investment banker at Goldman Sachs” and they think that the women will get wet over that. Fact is, most women would prefer a mountain climber who plays the electric guitar any day over just another guy with money. Think about it, these women of high value have offers of dinners and champagne every day of the week. These guys definitely lack what PUAs call game. Their game is to get the girls drunk, get drunk themselves, and see if she rejects the sleazy advances. Of course, if the guy is not too bad looking and the girl isn’t too fussy, it might work, but are these guys getting what they want? Do they feel satisfied with only the kind of girls that will sleep with them as long as they get to live a nice lifestyle. The usual problem with these guys is not running out of things to say like it is with other guys, it’s talking too much about themselves, being boring, and not being sensitive to what the woman wants. For us in these clubs, it’s pretty funny. We don’t spend money, and the girls really don’t care, they’re happy to meet guys that are attractive past the wallet, that know how to treat them, how to talk to them, and how to turn them on.
Maybe someone can clarify something for me. I’m just not getting it!