The common sticking points

After meeting nearly 400 customers, it’s become possible to categorise guys into a number of sticking points. They will either have one or many, and luckily we have a method of getting over each one. The common sticking points are:

1. Fear of the approach.
2. Run out of things to say and get stuck conversationally.
3. Get into a long conversation and don’t know how to close.
4. Get numbers but they flake.
5. Get dates and girls don’t want to see them again after first one.
6. Don’t know how to escalate physically.
7. Girls just want to be friends.

And the answers to these are:

1. Desensitisation, giving content, confidence boosting, framing the
situation differently, motivation strategies.
2. Impro exercises and giving content.
3. Verbally leading into a number or kiss close.
4. Solid number closing, text game, phone game.
5. Rapport, day-2 system, status.
6. Sexual tension, verbal and non-verbal sexual escalation.
7. Sexual escalation, prizing.

Of course, every individual is different and it’s bad to categorise guys like that, but that’s basically it. I know that I had each of the 7 problems when I started out and each of them are relatively easy to overcome given focused effort.