Not Being Dumped: Keeping the girl

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A friend of mine recently pulled a very hot girl.
She is the most attractive girl he’s even number closed.
He met her in a club, saw her for a date, everything was cool. He had another date with her, and he thought he made some mistakes.
Then disaster struck, he called, she didn’t answer, she didn’t call back and hours had passed, he thought she’d gone off him and that was that.
My thoughts were this: You meet the girl and close her, that means she likes certain things about you. Maybe you were cocky and funny, maybe you were sweet, whatever. The problem is that when a guy falls for a girl or puts too much pressure on the situation, he changes. He stops doing the things that made her fall for him initially, the attraction disappears and then he’s finished.
So, the advice to anyone who finds this situation familar is this: Think about what the girl liked about you when you first met her and give her more of this.
Oh yeah, the end of the story? It’s all cool, she had a legitimate excuse and is now chasing him.

Guys, do this stuff, but there is much more you can do to keep a girl interested, without being a jerk.

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