Honesty from the get-go.
I understand routines. I understand why you would want to harvest phone numbers. I understand why you would spend hours and hours learning how to manipulate any interaction. These aren’t things I do personally. One thing I also never do is lie. I recently told a girl that what I wanted from a relationship was for me to have multiple girlfriends and for the girls, in turn, to have multiple boyfriends, keeping everything light and fun with no possibility of jealousy. This lead to me being in a new situation. I am so very happy and excited that I decided to share with you my findings. The situation I am currently in has involved me experiencing the following things.
1.Falling in love with a girl who I consider my main girlfriend.
2.Sleeping with another girl who I see infrequently who is in full knowledge of my main girlfriend’s existence and vice-versa.
3.I assisted in the getting together of my main girlfriend and a self confessed ‘PUA’, who she is with right now which is why I’m online 
4.My primary girlfriend asked me yesterday in awe at how I made her feel “How do you exist?” and told me that I had given back her faith in MANkind, and that she has never felt as attached to anyone on such a deep level as does with me. She, after having made one of the biggest womanizers (and by womanizers I mean selfish *@?!) that I know, wait for 5 months before a physical relationship, had blessed me by opening up to me in considerably less time and she feels no regret. She is also aware of my other girlfriends.
5.I have never felt so happy and free from jealousy, I just want to run round the world making people feel good about themselves.
The scariest thing is expecting a ‘No way!’ when suggesting it. Sometimes you’ll get that and they will warm to it. They may then leave but why would you want to be with someone if the only way you could be with them was by settling or lying? If you continue to talk to them but make it clear that you aren’t going to change what you want to suit them it can turn out quite nicely.
Two days ago I was telling a girl the way I manage relationships and what she said went a bit like this.
“No way, I would never do that. Never. I could never do that. Never ever. Maybe for one night, but never longer than one night. Maybe a few but I wouldn’t call it a relationship”
At this point she started rubbing her leg against mine. I was quite taken aback.
Honesty IS the best policy.
-MD
MD, this is amazing man- I’m trying to integrate this type of honesty into my life but its hard sometimes. Its beautiful you have the balls to do this.
So tell me – As a player, pua or whatever, you can be honest in what you say, but is there a time to hold back?
I’m calling a girl this evening, and tonight is the only time we can go on a date till next week. So half of me says play it cool, but thats not what I’m really feel. The other half of me says call her, and say ‘Its been a few days since we met, and if we don’t see each other tonight the energy is gonna dissipate, so come out with me tonight, because I don’t want that to happen’.
what would you do man?
Keep it real, as it seems you know how to do..
Lp
Good for you men, i also think honesty is the best policy, however being honest in this matter i gotta say, im honest with a lot of my targets, yeah, they know too about the existance of the others girls and stuff, but there are some girls that thru de caliber that i did, i just can´t belive they would be able to resist me seeing other girs, so i just end the relationship before it goes too deep, which is kinda sad since those are frequently girls i really like so im thinking constantly about being with just one of those very special great girls or with a lot equaly great girls, that accept me having others but just don´t have “it” you know, i think im not being really clear with this but well… is late at night here so… im gonna sleep LOL}
POKER
Hey guys, I think the key to honesty is it’s saying what you feel and believe, so I would suggest saying that thing about not wanting the vibe to dissapate, it only gets bad when you start ‘confessing’ instead of being honest.
e.g if a girl says are you hitting on me, feel free to say ‘of course I am ffs’
but if a girl says ‘so what do you do for fun?’ going on to explain how you ‘sit up at night reading books trying to pick up girls and practicing with my friends’ is bad, whereas you could easily as said, ‘im very interested in the dynamics of attraction, so I talk to women ;)’
talking about how one is super focused on ‘OMG I SO LOVEZ WOMEN’ is a bit typical guy type thing.
it sounds better if it comes accross as a thing that happens rather than something you are consciously trying to do.
like when guys go to girls ‘OMG dont worry we wont be natural boys’ makes me like O_o typical
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ok tankyo