Comments on: Dancefloor Game mindset

By: Camera

Camera — Mon, 23 Nov 2009 09:09:20 +0000

Well, ‘practice makes a man perfect’. I am sure consistent practice and match experience would solve this problem for you.

By: Sam

Sam — Sat, 08 Aug 2009 02:28:28 +0000

I fully agree. I dance to express myself and not to impress. The funny thing though is that I end up getting so much more attention this way.

I have a friend who actually has better and more dance moves than me but he rarely seems to enjoy himself. The moves without the fun has little value. It’s better to have no real moves and have fun.

I noticed the following with dance game and that’s what I tell my friends. The more fun you have, the more the girls are attracted. I personally dance very fast and it’s kind of jerky but it gets tons of attention (I do it to express and not impress though). Raising your hand up in the air means you’re having fun. If a girl looks at you and she’s facing you, IMITATE her! They love that.

When a girl is attracted to you, her or her group will tend to move closer to you & even follow you around sometimes. I always say that if you had an eye on a girl and she happens to move closer, it is NO ACCIDENT. She’s trying to facilitate your approach.

By: Antonio "Poker"

Antonio "Poker" — Wed, 01 Oct 2008 18:53:37 +0000

You know, im not really a dancer or anything, however i was this time on a disco to celebrate a friend of mine birthday, and in his table, guess what, around 7 to 10 gorgeus dancer babes, and i was like “men, this would be hard, they are all into dancing and i don´t dance even a little bit” i actually was hired for a couple of seasons by a disco to animate the place along with another bunch of guys just doing some dance moves, but they were really simple, i was a little stiff that night, but in some point i started to talk about with one of this girls, she was really cool and receptive, so i started to letting myself go a little more, ande then i started to showing her my moves, really simple, but i was having fun… suddenly I had the whole set, the whole 10 girls doing what i was doing, dancing like i did even when they were profesional dancers, and they were actually having fun, later i was chating with them normaly just like any other set but i already had this great hvd and social proof, that was gread dude, every guy around was so amazed and looking like if i was this Casanova or something, i ended up with like 5 numbers that night and i took one of those girls to my house that same night, so yeah, is all about your vibe!

POKER

By: PhilipC

PhilipC — Tue, 30 Sep 2008 18:14:51 +0000

6 months ago i’d got no experience at dancing and was out with RichardM. He instructed me to walk straight into a
group of 3 girls who were having loads of fun and just copy their moves. When I did this, they respected my confidence and it was obvious I was out to have a good time, the rewards were instant. One of the girls put her
firemans hat on me and started grinding me. If I’d gone in trying to grind her I’d have got blown out, but because
I was so playful, seconds later she grinded me. It really hit home just how important it is to have fun, and not be
conscious of your appearance.

By: Antonio "Poker"

Antonio "Poker" — Tue, 30 Sep 2008 09:56:48 +0000

I know what you are saying man, is really amazing the feeling of doing something in the Field for real, for the first time, i remember the first video that i saw in field of a Pua, now i look at it and i say, men, that is nothing he is not even taking their numbers, but the first time i was really amazed about the ease that he talked with the girls, it was a video of Mystery in a white party or something like that, really impressive for me at the time, then i got my first set opened, then closed, then, kiss close, then f, and everything just felt amazing, the first time on everything was great!

POKER

By: John

John — Tue, 30 Sep 2008 09:05:09 +0000

The beauty of going on the Bootcamp is that you learn approaching on the dancefloor is all about frame. If you’re in state you can simply appraoch a girl on the dancefloor while being so completely powerful and confident in yourself that without saying a word you can be all over each other and making out in seconds.. .without knowing each other’s names… lol… the first time I did that myself my reality exploded. I just didn’t think such a thing was possible. Crazy stuff!

By: Antonio "Poker"

Antonio "Poker" — Tue, 30 Sep 2008 08:00:07 +0000

You know, i was just like Erik here said, i used to dance all night long to try to pick up girls, and it worked… sometimes, and other times id doesn´t, but i think i wasn´t bad at all, i dont really know cause i did dance for myself, but because of this i never really got interested in dance lessons or anything just wanna have fun, but i think i shouldnt had been that bad since they hired me in a club for a dancing animation team (don´t ask i was doing there) they put us some simple choreographies and we did em so the public could imitate, anyway, that was a way to pick up girs before, then i started with the game, and i stopped dancing, however sometimes i think it could be a useful skill since some girls really love to dance, so i think im gonna try to improve into this, well, see ya later, take care!

POKER

By: Erik

Erik — Mon, 29 Sep 2008 20:13:32 +0000

Dancing is a nice way to pick up girls. Before I used any pick up material it was the best way for me to pick up girls. Two times I kiss closed a girl without even saying a word just by dancing and I’m not a great dancer.
I’m glad to read that dancing is seen as a way of pick up.

By: ethnic indulgence

ethnic indulgence — Mon, 29 Sep 2008 19:30:04 +0000

man, what a undiscussed BUT NEEDED TO BE discussed topic. I like the ring of “not to impress, but to express” and im in agreement with the idea, but i think its more then just expressing. maybe its expressing and connecting. I say that because no matter what, even if you’re out there channeling freddie mercury on the dance floor, if you’re not connecting with anyone, your not attracting and its going to look vain. and i dont think that rules out going on to the floor by yourself, it just means, as always, knowing where you’re going with it.

kudos to noel on the in office survey and i always love a new opener. heads up though, surveys, while a great conversation starter, arent always the path to truth. we all know that (especially w the opposite sex) what people say and what people do or are attracted to can be completely unconnected.

love the post.

By: Richard

Richard — Mon, 29 Sep 2008 18:58:20 +0000

In Gambler’s book he mentions that he took 2 or 3 salsa lessons and that was all he felt he needed to feel somewhat comfortable on the dancefloor. I don’t think we need to spend too much time dedicated to learning the art of how to dance (unless it’s something you’re interested in of course).

My personal thoughts on dance game is that the way we dance isn’t neccesarily focused on our timing, flexability or ablility etc.
Instead I think the aspects of dance that girls find attractive is the confidence we potrude, the obvious comfort that we have with our body, the fact that we don’t mind being noticed. I think those are the things that girl’s sub-conciously notice and that is what makes them attracted to us. Well, thats my thoughts on the subject- I’m interested in what you guys all think about dance game.