Many of the quality women we do have, are quality because they decided to be quality even though they didn’t need to be. They are in the minority and they know it, and as a result of this, they can be extremely challenging to seduce.
Each time you approach a low quality girl, you increase the chances of you ending up in a relationship with a low quality girl. If you end up in a relationship with a low quality girl, it is your fault for having low standards.
Many men furnish their mind, get that high paying job, go to the gym, get professional help with their dating and relationships, why? Because basically women won’t sleep with them, or even give them any attention. Some men, so frustrated with this, will even wear stupid clothes so that women will look at them.
Regardless of whether or not women are giving you attention, you should be improving yourself and making yourself a more quality person anyway. It shouldn’t take a brutal sexual selection process to get people to make something of themselves; we should be doing that anyway. Props to all those women out there that are awesome even though they didn’t need to be. Let’s follow their example, and remember: you promote what you approach.
Right on! I think we bare the brunt of it with the English girls. Some countries have a reversal where beauty is so common that it’s tough for the girls to keep a guy that won’t be cheating all the time! Beautiful girls have told me this about Russia and former USSR places.
In addition, many girls find it a very unattractive quality in men when they discover a track record of low quality girls in their past. Though I strongly believe that self improvement and self enlightenment should be pursued for the sole reason of wanting to be the best one can be, the rewarding success with women can be kept in mind as a motivating factor, too.
Bravo!!! one of the best post ive read, id love if it would be more extense, i really don´t get guys that get into the pick up escene and still go for low quality girls, the idea is to go for the hottest girl in the club right, but you know, i haven´t seen this the way you put it here, and is true, if men in general were more selective, the girls would be pushed and pressed to be better, that´s why we are the best choise when we talk about guys, we improve ourself constantly, doesn´t matter if you already have a great game, or like AFC adam, that is already a Mpug and i just read in a post he had been trying a lot of direct game lately, i don´t know how he really plays but for me that sounded like he is experimenting, improving his game even now, at least in a more agressive level, that´s why we don´t settle down with any average girl, great post, i loved it! keep it like that!
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I agree. Regardless of the way girls respond to you do everything you can for self improvement. I was amazed to find that as I developed my social skills, I amused myself a lot better. This meant I could have much more fun as I went out, so I socialised way more often and my skills improved even more rapidly, which obviously made me more attractive.
I’m a strong believer in the more we put into something the more we get out of it and that to really enjoy something we have to work hard at it.
So like, starting out as a PUA is horrible, there’s so much approach anxiety, and you’re v.self conscious. But then through hard work you become competent, sets go smoothly, girls are thrilled to be in your company. You get an incredible buzz and all the work seemed worthwhile. Now you can go out and have incredible social interactions with people, any day you choose. But none of this would have been possible without a bit of hard work to begin with. Small price to pay I would say.