The Tiger & The Tigress
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Imagine a disney style cartoon jungle with a tiger that’s been wounded in numerous battles and hasn’t fully recovered. He runs into a tigress and when they engage in playful scrapping her gentle attacks manage to open up pre-existing wounds thus downing him instantly. Should the tigress leave the wounded tiger because it’s in weak state? Or on the off chance that it’s a top tiger should she nurse it back to health?
What should the tiger do if she nurses him back to health? Does he owe her?
Is she a lesser tigress exploiting the wounded tiger or is she a romantic top tigress? Should he take the risk like she did?
That doesn´t really sound like a Disney cartoon you know? LOL, however, getting into the excercise, I think the tiger should calibrate the tigress, if I were he, i would make her pamper me since im wounded, neg her a little to demostrate that even when im wounded im still higher value, and a little cock y and funny so she don´t think im just being grumpy, then i would reward her for being kind with me letting her invite me to hunt some deers or something LOL, there i would create more attraction and rapport and since we are in mating season i would make fclose, notice i didn´t did number close since we tigers don´t use cell phones! ;)
POKER
I don’t mean to get too deep/thoughtful but heres my thoughts.
My Grandparents met because my Grandmother was a nurse and my Grandad was injured in WW2. My Grandmother nursed him back to health everyday for two months.
She told me that she admired his bravery- he never complained about his injuries and she admired him because he constantly smiled. She said that she felt she would’t have been able to cope with the scenes in the hospital if it hadn’t been for my Grandad’s charms.
As a result when my Grandad was released they got married. Neither one felt that owed eachother anything, instead they felt thankful for eachother.
If life makes us physically weak, don’t let it ruin your mentality- stay strong.
I really like these analogy posts :)
If you’re wounded in battle, its not the scars that matter, but the lessons learned from getting those scars in the first place ;)
So if a girl blows you off and you get emotionally hurt, depending on your inner game, you would use your ‘scar’ in analogy terms to either use it to rectify your future sets and to thus succeed or to go in a downward spiral.
Now the hihghest form of inner game is: Your scars is what makes you the person you are; The imperfect human beings that all of us are… None of us are perfect.
I have a personal saying:
“It’s not the perfections, but the imperfections that make us attractive”
So the lesson to this is, be proud of your imperfections. If a woman shit tests you by saying something negative about it. Stand up with pride with your chest high that you don’t need her approval… Eventually, she’ll know to love your imperfections, or in the story’s case; Heal your scars ;)
Wow Richard, that´s a great story, you should be really proud, seems that your grandpa was a true alpha male, you got it in your blood then, and the example seems a lot better than the one of the tiger LOL, well… of course the main topic here was with the intent of got us thinking, and it did, but Richard´s post is really self-explicatory, i like both,and Onder, come on man! you almost got me crying with that!!! LOL, no, really, that was really good coment, and i hadn´t see those “scars” that way, talking about inner game, is a great point of view.
POKER
I appreciate your comment Antonio, Thanks :)
Sounds like my kind of cartoon! Here’s how I interpret things:
I don’t think the tigress would leave the tiger unless he displayed signs of weakness that would damage his long-term value in her eyes. She can see that he is adventurous and exciting by the wounds he bears from countless battles, and these only give him more character. Being willing to play fight with her despite the risk of reopening old wounds displays a lack of attatchment to outcomes and a sense of positivity. Despite his perceived flaws, he’s still willing to engage in all the fun with her.
I think the attributes displayed by the tiger when initially meeting the tigress would cover his strippy ass against any weakness he might display during that period of injury. After she has helped to nurse him back to full health, even if their tiger-love doesn’t work out, his lifestyle means that he’s like to have a large pack that he can introduce her to, and vice versa. He can repay her by giving her more value, one way of another.
I think she would be an opportunistic tigress who understands that even though things are rarely perfectly aligned in your favour, you can always find opportunities in places where you might not have otherwise thought possible. He too should take the risk. Even if it’s a behavior he isn’t normally accustomed to doing, by taking a risk he’s opening himself up to the potential for growth. If he does nothing, he stays in comfort and removes himself from the opportunity to gain anything.