The main thing that 90% of guys need to get over and start doing more is simply Approaching!!!
Before you will have the confidence to Approach a stunning girl surrounded by her friends, try talking to people you meet every day. Did you smile and make a connection with the girl who served you dinner, coffee or anything else.
Are you talking to people who aren’t HB’s? This is the easiest way to get over the fear of Approaching.
Start small and gradually improve. That is the way forward.
If you become a more friendly and talkative person in your every day life you will be able to game SHB’s like I do every day!
I am currently creating a DVD where I approach and close SHB’s… becasue I can. If you make the effort to speak to people every day, you will one day game and close SHB’s in the most natural and smooth way possible.
Watch out for my “Approaching SHB’s DVD coming soon.”
I have many Approaches on the Vault that are worth watching… they are about 2 years old now (October 2008). Watch these videos, watch how I interact with these girls and try to copy the smooth and natural vibe i have going on.
I am uploading videos to youtube right now, check them out…
All the best
Richard Macilwaine
so where is the video?
“The main thing that 90% of guys need to get over and start doing more is simply Approaching!!!”
I’m so glad someone finally said this! I have a lot of PUA friends ask me for advice on a daily basis. The majority of them read all the material they can get their hands on, and seem to be looking for the “magic bullet” that will take their game where they want it to be.
I find myself saying “No, please! Just go out and approach more – most of your ‘sticking points’ will auto-correct!”