GIVE ME AN OPENER!!!
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HEY GUYS, GIVE ME AN OPENER AS CRAZY AND WACKY AS YOU LIKE!!!
I am going to go in field with the best, video the approach and show you it can work.
Stay kool and keep gaming.
Your Friendly, Neighbourhood PUA, Dharam ;-)
Wow! That’s what I like about your posts, they are all tried and tested in field or you’re gonna try them. The proof is in the pudding!
Its so inspiring reading and watching work from someone who practices what they preach.
How about this for an opener, as its just happened to me:
I just got my haircut and I’m not 100% happy, I wasn’t sure whether to tell the hairdresser so I just walked out, what would you do?
Can’t wait to see what happens.
My buddy used this one in belfast and it went down very funny!!
Monkeys, monkeys, banannas banannas (she looks at you) hey I was just trying to make you smile, my names Noel
Do it!
“Would you go out with a guy called Merv”
Always works for me, 100% record in the field, especially for queue game
McDonalds coffee or starbucks coffee ?!
I tried this one, would be interesting to see how you work with it.
see a girl thats obviously cold…
“its cold isnt it?”
” well you’re in luck, im giving away free hugs tonight!”
and open your arms!
it worked a treat!
keep up the good work!
1 love from the Peterborough massive! ;)
oh yeah, and then you say
“were hugging and i dont even no your name”
;)
Hey Dharam. Nice to see you’re putting youe money where your mouth is… Props for that. An opener I’d like to see you use is ‘Who lies more? Guys or girls?’ haha Not quite..
I really like you and all BUT I’m not going to be as conservative as the other guys!! There’s no point in using an opener that is already been tested and it’s ‘normal’. I think that if you want to achieve your goal and convince everyone that the opener doesn’t really matter, you need to take it to the extreme! Talk about stuff we wouldn’t normally talk about…
So…. a couple of suggestions
1) I bet you’re good at bed!!
2) What’s the last time you had sex?
3) I just got out of jail and I haven’t been with a female for 3 years. Help me out!
(Sorry about that but it’s just so tempting…)
Now THAT would be interesting!! Can’t wait for the video..
Hey did you feel that? That excitment when you turned around to see me or saw us partying later tonight together.
My opener for picking up on women at cash register’s is
“Oh I have to pay..?? Why is that..”
They give reason..
“I’ve never ever had to pay before.. ever.., why?”
Than I just snowball it with caliburation..
I’ve got others like,
“Do you know what a Wallaby/ is??” (a certain book gave me this idea..)
When they answer, I am just acting stupid.. and say, “Oh I was just wondering.. my friend is thinking about getting one.. I’m just trying to figure out why he would want one… Do you have any weird pets..?”
than I snowball it.. :)
You’ll get so good at openers that you won’t need to think of any, or you’ll get so good at giving of that ‘vibe’ that you are the one to be with that women will open you up.. that’s when you push yourself to make a pickup harder and harder that sometimes it eventually turns in to a seduction :)
since I have a theory that both are different..
By the way, it depends on what style of ‘PU” you run, many people perfer “MM”, I mix up many methods, “MM”, “Natural”, “Speed Seduction”, etc etc in my pickups since I’ve got to the point where I’m only doing “PU” to close Multiple sets of “+3 or more” all at the same time. :)
If I ever run “MM” which is rarely nowdays since it’s become so mainstream, my favorite ‘neg’ which never fails is telling ‘women’ they look like a cartoon. They always bite with “why or which one,” it depends on what they answer how I will respond back. :)
Sometimes I say, cause ‘I can only picture cartoon wearing . . .’ and point out the oddest item they are wearing… or ’cause you are so animated, warner brother would probably give you a job..’
Just have fun with whatever you do in your openers or negs.. :)
hey! want to sleep with me?
i asked this alot and only once i got a comment of “i wanna sleep in bed”, all the others are always “no” or *shocked” “no.” usually followed by going away.
nice shoes, wanna fuck?
i tried this a bit, it can work but depends on the girl i guess.
my friend made a cool one “hubba hubba hubba, wanna sleep with me?”
“Oh my god, I’m so tired of girls looking at me and just seeing my cute ‘puppy dog eyes’, sexy smile and washboard abs, they just don’t take the time to see that underneath I’m actually a warm, charming, intellingent guy. I’m just so tired of being looked at like a piece of meat, it’s so tough for us lookers don’t you think?”- saying all this while looking in a hand mirror and fixing your hair.
Hahaha oh man this would be great! Sorry Dharam! I won’t be offended if you don’t do this- lol
“What’s your favorite circus, Oxford, Piccadilly or Cambridge?”
(woman walks along the street), hey, i just had to stop you and tell you how beautifull you are…
(in the club), is it just me or can you feel the heat
Wow. Your glass eye looks incredibly realistic.
can you tell me how to get to sesamee street?
Tom cruise or Jesus?
Hi
Id love to hear you make there way round this one.
“I’d love to be your boy friend, will you be my girl friend?”
“I’m a pick-up artist”
I’m looking for a girlfriend, can you help?
“Say hello to ma little friend” aaaaand pull out youre little friend’ ;)
show me your genatals
Dharam: Hey, whats your name?
Her: (Rachel)
Dharam: Cool, Rachel….can I call you Rachel?
Her: (Yeah, sure I guess)
Dharam: So when can I call you?
hahaha I remember us opening in London using farm animal noises Dharam!!! flipping FARMtastic!!!
My magical watch says you arent wearing any underwear!
Oh, you are? It must be an hour fast!
Personally.. I think that 80% of the openers that I have just read from this blog are crap.
The fact that some of you don’t know how to spell is a good sign of that.
I believe that an opener should open a whole conversation..
For Example:
“Hey, my friends were just arguing about something… if a guy has a split personality disorder, and he gets a cold. Do all of his personalities have a cold or just one of them?”
This is an interesting topic that can open a set of people (girls and guys, or just girls) and it starts a chain of thoughts from every person. While the conversation is going, you can easily thread into attraction from the girl of your interest by using a neg or an observation.
I do not believe that openers are a high priority in pick-up but a girls attraction of a guy is usually created in the first couple minutes or it won’t happen. Therefore, a good opener can create a good first impression on the girl.
I just want to say that I think it is stupid to say that the first couple of minutes are crucial. I have dated girls who I met half a year ago when I wasn’t able to impress them in the first few minutes. So if you do it right it doesn’t matter how you open.
Ok.. Erik.
I agree with you, I guess I meant to say that it is crucial when you are introducing yourself to a new group of people in a club environment because without an opener it is difficult to stay interesting for the new set.
I think you’re one of my matches on eharmony?