Make her come back for more

Hi guys, this is Gerry the new trainer at PUA training. I have joined the company , because of my sexual experience to help you guys with your after game. So I hope you guys will enjoy my articles as much as I enjoy enjoying to share them with you.

What happens when you leave the club!??!?!?

Over the years I have read hundreds of articles, books and listened to many a CD about how to ‘pick up’ women and seduce them. I haven’t, however, found a lot of information on the all- important subject of what happens when you get home? So what I have done is questioned about a 1000+ women over a ten-year period about what makes a guy good in bed and what makes him stand out from the others.

This is a summary of my findings throughout the years, which, as a writer for Men’s Health South Africa, I gladly share with you.

What makes a good lover ?

Is it the way you are built?
Is it how long you can have s%x for?
Is it how much she fancies you?
Or is it the size of your manhood?

Whilst all of these things can make you a better lover, the following is my advice to make you stand out from the rest of the men that she has slept with her before.

Let’s start at the beginning. You meet this attractive girl in the pub/ club and you hit it off. Things go so well that she decides that she will go home with you. Now lets look at the difference between when a women sleeps at your house and when you sleep at a women’s house?

· Firstly she has no toothbrush there.
· She doesn’t have her pj’s.
· No make up remover.
· She’s disorientated. (Except if she’s familiar with the area)
· There’s the uncertainty that she is at a guy’s house that she just met.
· She might be hungry after the night out or the following morning.

As guys we don’t tend to think of these things are a big deal BUT TRUST ME THEY ARE TO GIRLS!

Women are comfort creatures and they love being comfortable. Why is she in your in room inn the first place? Besides the obvious it is because she trusts you and feels comfortable. So we really need to keep the comfort going. She might think that you are the man of her dreams. This is your opportunity to seal the deal as she’ll be watching exactly how you look after her when you taking her home. So your job is only half done. You have shown how great a guy you are in the club, she now needs to know that you are a great guy in general.

How do we do this?

These are the answers I have got from my girlfriends and from my own experience.

· Firstly always have a spare toothbrush in your room.
· Have a comfortable pair of pj’s that you don’t wear yourself to give to her.
· Have some good face wash.
· Have a nice moisturiser handy.
· Always have coffee or tea for the next morning.
· Have a spare clean towel, if she wants to take a shower next morning.
· Have some food ready for the morning. Cereal, eggs, toast est.
· Having a good wine for these occasions is a great idea, just to keep the mood going before it’s time for bed. Its good to show her you don’t want to race to bed.

So why would you put in all of this effort? Because it makes you different from most guys. Because THIS IS WHAT MAKES YOU STAND OUT. Most guys don’t think of how the woman must feel being at a stranger’s house. All of these methods will make her so comfortable. She’ll also feel that it’s a really natural relationship if she can wash her face before she goes to bed. It’s the little things that she worries about like having fresh breath when you start to kiss or not having any clothing to sleep in. Okay, she’s probably not going to have the clothes on for long , but at least she will feel comfortable climbing into bed. Also some women don’t like sleeping naked… again, it’s all about comfort.

If they really like you enough to sleep with you on the first night, imagine what must be going through her mind? Things like ‘I hope my breath doesn’t smell. My face feels dirty with the make up I still have on. Hope if he goes down South it doesn’t smell.’ These are all the little things that will go through a women’s head if she is even half sober. Also the next morning when she wakes up and you have a good selection of things for her to eat or drink, she will start her day in a good mood and it will let her know that you are organised and that you think of her needs.

Also something that guys don’t really pay attention to…?  Our rooms! A woman can judge a lot from a guys room. Is it clean? What kind of pictures does he have against his wall. Does he have pictures of his family in his room? This all tells her more about the guy she might be considering dating in the future or having more s%x with.

This is the first Article of many, If you guys need anymore info? Contact me on my
e-mail address gerry@puatraining.com

And don’t worry in the next article we will get more down to the nit and gritty.