Comments on: Okay…maybe not quite! http://www.puatraining.com/puablog/2008/10/okaymaybe-not-quite The Most Active Pick Up Artist Seduction Blog on the Planet Mon, 06 Sep 2010 14:01:17 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: Joker http://www.puatraining.com/puablog/2008/10/okaymaybe-not-quite#comment-2384 Joker Mon, 22 Dec 2008 01:59:03 +0000 http://www.puatraining.com/puablog/?p=909#comment-2384 I think you need to cut a balance between taking small, realistic steps to keep your motivation going, and large, unrealistic leaps of faith to take you outside your comfort zone. You will learn more from your so-called "mistakes" (if you allow yourself to), but without some success to balance things out, you will probably lose motivation, and might start to have negative associations with gaming! Something I've do when I take out students is to get them some basic results and help them achieve a good state, then we do what I call "blow-out game" - approaching girls with the intention of getting blown out, which unless you're outright rude, I've found that it can be more difficult than you might imagine (it can get bit obnoxious). In this way, by keeping it as a mission, it still feels like a fun game, so you can feel good about being "rejected" - it can't bruise your ego, because you've achieved your outcome. You win by "failing"! It's a backwards logic, as most guys are going into set with an outcome of "get the girl to like you", not "get the girl to leave you". After practicing lots of different theories, I got bored and I started to do this with my own game. What I found was that I became desensitised to "rejection", and starting to anchor those fun, joke-like feelings to approaching and "failure". I easily rid myself of my AA, and actually started to enjoy getting blown out, hoping to see new, creative forms of female rejection (there aren't that many original ones!) The only problem I now have is that I don't get blown out as much as I'd like - I'm making less "mistakes", and I'm getting "good" results. The only sick part is that I just I only feel like my rate of learning is slowing down! I think you need to cut a balance between taking small, realistic steps to keep your motivation going, and large, unrealistic leaps of faith to take you outside your comfort zone. You will learn more from your so-called “mistakes” (if you allow yourself to), but without some success to balance things out, you will probably lose motivation, and might start to have negative associations with gaming!

Something I’ve do when I take out students is to get them some basic results and help them achieve a good state, then we do what I call “blow-out game” – approaching girls with the intention of getting blown out, which unless you’re outright rude, I’ve found that it can be more difficult than you might imagine (it can get bit obnoxious).

In this way, by keeping it as a mission, it still feels like a fun game, so you can feel good about being “rejected” – it can’t bruise your ego, because you’ve achieved your outcome. You win by “failing”! It’s a backwards logic, as most guys are going into set with an outcome of “get the girl to like you”, not “get the girl to leave you”.

After practicing lots of different theories, I got bored and I started to do this with my own game. What I found was that I became desensitised to “rejection”, and starting to anchor those fun, joke-like feelings to approaching and “failure”. I easily rid myself of my AA, and actually started to enjoy getting blown out, hoping to see new, creative forms of female rejection (there aren’t that many original ones!)

The only problem I now have is that I don’t get blown out as much as I’d like – I’m making less “mistakes”, and I’m getting “good” results. The only sick part is that I just I only feel like my rate of learning is slowing down!

]]> By: Erik http://www.puatraining.com/puablog/2008/10/okaymaybe-not-quite#comment-893 Erik Mon, 03 Nov 2008 07:16:25 +0000 http://www.puatraining.com/puablog/?p=909#comment-893 It works :). Past Saturday night I made friends with just giant dude and I talked to 2 women. I felt good. Next time I'll try talking to some more women. It works :).
Past Saturday night I made friends with just giant dude and I talked to 2 women. I felt good. Next time I’ll try talking to some more women.

]]> By: Infinity http://www.puatraining.com/puablog/2008/10/okaymaybe-not-quite#comment-891 Infinity Sun, 02 Nov 2008 23:26:43 +0000 http://www.puatraining.com/puablog/?p=909#comment-891 It's important to make sure that the goals you set are feasible. Work hard and you'll make it. Social mastery is a very difficult thing to reach and it'll take time and many failures. The key is understanding it, accepting it, and going through with it anyway. It’s important to make sure that the goals you set are feasible. Work hard and you’ll make it. Social mastery is a very difficult thing to reach and it’ll take time and many failures.

The key is understanding it, accepting it, and going through with it anyway.

]]> By: Crush http://www.puatraining.com/puablog/2008/10/okaymaybe-not-quite#comment-881 Crush Fri, 31 Oct 2008 21:48:54 +0000 http://www.puatraining.com/puablog/?p=909#comment-881 love this...so simple but so true! im going to use this tonight! lets see how it effects my 'performance' / enjoyment. sometimes im to hard on myself so i would add to this, celebrate the small things im getting right instead of always focusing on what im doing wrong or what i cant do...yet ;) Thanks Angel love this…so simple but so true! im going to use this tonight! lets see how it effects my ‘performance’ / enjoyment.
sometimes im to hard on myself so i would add to this, celebrate the small things im getting right instead of always focusing on what im doing wrong or what i cant do…yet ;)

Thanks Angel

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