Questions for girls, What did you always want to ask that Hot Girl?
I’m planning to do some video interviews with attractive women and ask them all the burning questions that guys have. I’m going to get to the bottom of things, understand the female mind, and get insight that will help us in the dating game. I’ve come up with some questions and i’d love to hear if you have any that you’d like me to include:
You gave me your number, when should I call or text?
Does persistence work, or is it better to ignore you for a bit then try again?
Why wouldn’t you like to see me again after a date?
When you are single and going out and giving your number out, how many guys are likely to be texting, calling, dating you?
You gave me your number but didn’t respond when I texted or called, how come?
How does one of them stand out?
When a guy approaches you, how would you order these factors – technical good looks, fashion, energy/vibe, opening line?
At what point do you make the decision that you are sexually attracted to a guy?
Do you assume that a guy is only after one thing, a liar, a player or do you give him the benefit of the doubt for a while?
When should a guy go for the kiss?
Should a guy say “I love you” first?
Do you think it’s okay to meet a guy in a club?
If you come back to a guys house at night when it’s just the two of you, does that mean you have already decided to sleep with him?
If you are attracted to a guy and want to sleep with him, what makes you hold back sometimes?
Do most guys go for the kiss too soon or too late?
Do they do it in the right way?
Are guys generally too sexual or not sexual enough?
When you are with your friend in a bar and a guy approaches who you like what’s the best way for him to handle the situation (ignore your friend, be nice, quickly get your number, stay a while)?
What’s the best compliment a guy can give you?
Describe your ideal pick up.
Guys, give me some more!
1. what are the worst come-ons that men make? and the worst one?
2. what would you say to guys who are wondering whether to approach you or not, or thinking you might be a bitch?
Questions for the girls: If a girl says she is “not ready for a relationship” because of her situation, what does that mean? Should I still pursue? If so how would I avoid slipping into the frends zone? (lol I have oneitus on this girl)
Typically, how insecure is a hot girl? Is she less insecure than average looking girls, as insecure, or even more insecure?
Do girls want guys to approach them on street?
Under what circumstances do you want/don’t want to be approached.
When you are in a relationship, how would you prioritise the following kinds of that you would like to receive? (1 for most, 6 for least important):
Caring
Respect
Validation
Reassurance
Understanding
Devotion
*What is the best way to contact you after getting your number. call you or text you?
**When a guy has a player- reputation. Does that scare you away?
***When is the best time to aproach you at a club. At the bar or at the Dance-floor?
1. Does ‘pecking’ actually annoy you?
2. When guys come and dance with you and your friends in a club, what is the proper way to do it?
3. If a woman is really drunk, do guys who subsequently kiss her look bad as a result? Taking advantage maybe?
How many guy friends do you have?
+Do women still have a thing for the dark mysterious type or have they been ousted by “metrosexuals”?
+Why is it that when I express what I consider to be old fashioned views, women take offense and tell me I am being sexist?
Just because I don’t acknowledge the whole girl power, emasculate all the men in the world paradigm that seems to be getting promoted left right and centre does not mean that I’m sexist. Is it sexist to think that women should stay home and look after the kids? After all we have evolved like that for thousands of years!
Now I am not against women working, but I do believe that when children are young they do need plenty of attention from their parents, especially their mother. And is it sexist to think that a woman should be a great cook in the kitchen, a maid in the house and a whore in the bedroom with complete subservience? Well maybe just a tad! ;-)
What makes a guy high value?
Why do lots of girls flirt when they have a Boyfriend? Ego boost or wanting a new relationship?
IOIS
When a girl is acting shy, ie not displaying active IOIS, is this a sign of interest?
Possibly the guy makes the girl feel nervous?
If a guy is a great lover, would you stay with him despite being lackluster in other areas?
Do you prefer to take the lead in initiating sex, do so once in a while, or is it always the guy’s responsibility to take the initiative?
How do you define ‘class’ in the context of what makes a man attractive?
Lots of great stuff here that i’ll include. Keep em coming!
Obviously this sounds like something you guys would be interested in!
-R
Is there anything specific that would be a deal maker or deal breaker?
Is there anytime you would rather not be approached by a man?
OK your in an all female group except for 1 guy your all friends with (don’t necessarily have to be attracted to him) and your being approached by, not half-decent guys, but drunks/loud-mouths/weirdos, what would you want your friend to do when this is happening? Lean back and just let you deal with it until the guy gets a bit ‘too much’, pretend his with you when the guy comes over?
I know a lot of the time it will be relative to the situation so maybe on a deeper level how would you like a guy to be, whether you were by yourself or in a large group of you all, to feel safe yet still feel independant?
Any comments or hints would be appreciated!
Awesome! And I have a few more:
Do a lot of guys talk to you and not ask for your number when you probably would have given it to them?
What are the key things that make a man good in bed?
When you dress in a very sexually provocative way, does it signal your mood that night?
Is how sexual a man looks a factor in you going for him in a nightclub?
What qualities in men that you know are BAD are you still attracted to?
do you ever buy guys drinks at the bar?
is it really that bad to just go up to a girl confidently and tell her you are attarcted to her straight away?
How big a difference does the height of a guy make?
as a percentage, how much does a guys look make of it i.e. looks= 40% of a guys immidiate immage?
If you are interested in a man you see in a club and give him an AI like eye contact or get in his proximity, what kind of approach would you prefer? Subtle indirect, playful or direct?
hey, Gambler, there’s lot of people mentioned the questions i wanted to ask, but the thing is I would like to know when and where can I find the answers for all these, please reply on here, thanks a lot.
If a man has a great personality, can that overcome what you may consider his physical limitations?
Example: If you prefer a taller man or a fit man can you set that aside if you met a great short man or an awesome overweight guy?
The 800 pound gorilla in the room that no one wants to talk about but I will ask anyway:
Does race matter? Can a man from a different ethnic background be a hinderance OR can it be a positive?
I know these questions may difficult but I know many guys like myself who wonder the same thing.
How to become the guy that “doesn’t count?”
-What makes you melt. HAHAHA
-What should guys do when they open?
-Should we be good boys? Or bad boys?
Alright guys, there’s obviously a lot of interest in this. I’m going to be filming this within a few weeks so you can expect to see the results pretty soon. I’m used to getting the real answers out of women and will make sure I get some good stuff for you guys.
cool, i think i have some on here;
how do girls like guys approach them over the internet, such as facebook,myspace?
what would be the best situation for guys ask girls out over the internet?, i’m sure it’s lot different than daytime pick up .
If you see a guy you that like the look of in a bar or club setting, how do you make yourself known to him- what sort of IOI’s would you emit (if any)?
If you pass a guy in the street that you like the look of, do you do anything or present an opportunity for him to start an interaction with him?
Is there any room for good old-fashioned romance in today’s contemporary ‘meeting’ environments? i.e. clubs, bars etc
What do you think of the concept of training guys to become PUAs?
and finally…
Who lies more, men or women? haha, nah Im just messing.
Hey guys,
I wasn’t too sure where to post this, but for those of you that are interested in the pyschology side of attraction you may find this link interesting
http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/health/7688315.stm
Sorry Richard, but im a Psychology student and that’s complete rubbish, a perfect example of how not to infer causality of statistics from a study, as usual the media picks it up and talks about it as if its fact and trivial inferences of what data from a study actually means!
Don’t shoot the messenger mate! lol. I put it up as I some guys on here are interested in these sorts of studies, even if the findings are questionable. And if anything it can be turned into an interesting opener, or an interesting fact to throw into a conversation as a DHV.
hi all,
well I better drop a hint.
Oh first I just have to shoot at the shooter :) Matthew, if he does not collect enough answers no matter how stupid the questions are, how can he get better and see the patterns? :) reading books ONLY? :)) get much more practice hours maybe on that psychology course… or more pub-type of time ;)
the hint: well if I were you, Gambler, I would drop the list and just shoot direct emotional questions, per-situation, just brave and whatever ;) That’s how you can get a best-near-100% emotional non-logic-filtered answers or easily understandable reactions from almost any woman. Weird exceptions aside :)
Otherwise you get logical answers which means useless/fake knowledge ;)
just my opinion ;)
t0sh
p.s. shortened: dont ask anything, just do it dirrefent ways and u’ll get the reactions ;)
Filmed the first one today with Marina. It’s some great stuff but it’s 54 minutes long. I’ve got 3 more that I plan to do this week! I’m including your questions so thanks for contributing. If you are on the mailing list you’ll hear about how i’m going to get this to you.
So, where is this relationship going?
If you had a choice to spend eternity either in a noisy dance club dancing all the time or a quiet cafe with all the books of your choice to read while listening to soft jazz. Which would you prefer?
Can you cook?
What are your reasons for suddenly cutting off ALL communication with no apparent reason? For both longer term friends and guys who have picked you up, have texted a few times then just suddenly that’s it? Gone?
“Are the answers that you’re giving me to these questions congruent with what you ACTUALLY want?”
I would ask them “What do you dislike about your father?”
Thanks,
Maleko – http://mysterytylerstyle.blogspot.com/
What will it take for you to kiss ME first?
:-) you know. You gotta be good to make the girl want you so much that she initiate all the sexual stuff. And to get a girl kiss you first must be a pretty good preselection method. If you get the girls running after you all night, shouting out loud that she wants to kiss you, this must be good for your social proof + value + preselction ;-)