Comments on: Storytelling (aka talking too much) http://www.puatraining.com/puablog/2008/10/storytelling-aka-talking-too-much/ The Most Active Pick Up Artist Seduction Blog on the Planet Tue, 07 Feb 2012 14:33:27 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Reset http://www.puatraining.com/puablog/2008/10/storytelling-aka-talking-too-much/#comment-621 Reset Sat, 04 Oct 2008 18:03:24 +0000 http://www.puatraining.com/puablog/?p=604#comment-621 I realize the importance of storytelling. Who would knew that we would get into that stuff as a part of self-improvement? (not to say picking-up chicks! I hope it's more than that..) It's really great as the other guys mentioned that even the instructors learn from each other and try to improve. RESPECT!!! You know what? I think you should share the story with girls you really like because it's a part of you. It shows that you are vulnerable and human, not only alpha!! Don't share this with everyone you meet at a club though.. Save this for some special people on a day 3 maybe.. or when you have deep comfort. That's my take.. And I agree the NLP DVD's should be great! I realize the importance of storytelling. Who would knew that we would get into that stuff as a part of self-improvement? (not to say picking-up chicks! I hope it’s more than that..)

It’s really great as the other guys mentioned that even the instructors learn from each other and try to improve. RESPECT!!!

You know what? I think you should share the story with girls you really like because it’s a part of you. It shows that you are vulnerable and human, not only alpha!! Don’t share this with everyone you meet at a club though.. Save this for some special people on a day 3 maybe.. or when you have deep comfort. That’s my take..
And I agree the NLP DVD’s should be great!

]]> By: Richard http://www.puatraining.com/puablog/2008/10/storytelling-aka-talking-too-much/#comment-617 Richard Sat, 04 Oct 2008 14:05:06 +0000 http://www.puatraining.com/puablog/?p=604#comment-617 Good point Noel. It is a good idea to be able to demonstrate and display your emotions to a girl- it will show the girl you're chatting to that you can be compassionate as well as funny. Someone in the community said that meeting a girl is like a job interview, you've only got a certain amount of time to impress the person opposite you. So techniques like the one in the post are useful strategies to use in order to convey your personality. But remember that these techniques are for that- to convey your personality. So don't go swapping your personality for techniques, tricks and gimmicks because otherwise you'll just become hollow. Good point Noel. It is a good idea to be able to demonstrate and display your emotions to a girl- it will show the girl you’re chatting to that you can be compassionate as well as funny.

Someone in the community said that meeting a girl is like a job interview, you’ve only got a certain amount of time to impress the person opposite you. So techniques like the one in the post are useful strategies to use in order to convey your personality.

But remember that these techniques are for that- to convey your personality. So don’t go swapping your personality for techniques, tricks and gimmicks because otherwise you’ll just become hollow.

]]> By: Noel http://www.puatraining.com/puablog/2008/10/storytelling-aka-talking-too-much/#comment-616 Noel Sat, 04 Oct 2008 13:54:03 +0000 http://www.puatraining.com/puablog/?p=604#comment-616 True man, If we want to get a girl excited and too feel good, then your story is perfect. I think it is very important in night game to get a girl excited, because we are in a club to enjoy ourselves, not to experience negative emotions. But I have heard that top PU gurus use the term "an emotional rollercoaster!" ie making the girl feel happy, then just normal, then excited, then sad, then awsome etc. Apparently this mix of emotions will be "unreal" for the girl, she won;t know what is coming next. Its called a roller coaster because her mood goes up and down a lot, and I gotta say I think there is a lot of merit to this theory. Women love to experience emotions,they get turned on from it. Now, I agree not to share the end of your story in "club/bar game"...keep the girl on a high as she is there for a good night. However in day game, share the whole story.(excitement then sadness)..then at the end of it (for example) you could ask her if she has any friends like yours or any friend she really loves and get her to tell you about them (she will like talking about her friends and will experience another emotion from this). And so on here the girl is experiencing excitement,sadness and comfort from talking about her friends etc. She is on the rollercoaster, she won't just think you're a fun guy who makes her laugh, Now your'e a guy who can make her experience a wide range of emotions, shows depth to your character. I think thats a good thing... Enjoy you're weekends! Cheers, Noel True man, If we want to get a girl excited and too feel good, then your story is perfect. I think it is very important in night game to get a girl excited, because we are in a club to enjoy ourselves, not to experience negative emotions.

But I have heard that top PU gurus use the term “an emotional rollercoaster!” ie making the girl feel happy, then just normal, then excited, then sad, then awsome etc. Apparently this mix of emotions will be “unreal” for the girl, she won;t know what is coming next. Its called a roller coaster because her mood goes up and down a lot, and I gotta say I think there is a lot of merit to this theory.

Women love to experience emotions,they get turned on from it.

Now, I agree not to share the end of your story in “club/bar game”…keep the girl on a high as she is there for a good night.

However in day game, share the whole story.(excitement then sadness)..then at the end of it (for example) you could ask her if she has any friends like yours or any friend she really loves and get her to tell you about them (she will like talking about her friends and will experience another emotion from this). And so on

here the girl is experiencing excitement,sadness and comfort from talking about her friends etc. She is on the rollercoaster, she won’t just think you’re a fun guy who makes her laugh, Now your’e a guy who can make her experience a wide range of emotions, shows depth to your character. I think thats a good thing…

Enjoy you’re weekends!

Cheers, Noel

]]> By: Richard http://www.puatraining.com/puablog/2008/10/storytelling-aka-talking-too-much/#comment-603 Richard Fri, 03 Oct 2008 18:28:32 +0000 http://www.puatraining.com/puablog/?p=604#comment-603 That's awesome that you guys are all learning from eachother and are open to new ideas and theories. I respect you for that as I imagine a lot of PUAs, who consider themselves at the top of their game, probably don't like to think they can learn anything more about seduction. As for the bootcamp, it sounds like it was a really interesting one. Im kind of divided on the subject of NLP, but I would certainly be keen to get hold of the DVD when it's out to open my mind to what NLP can offer. That’s awesome that you guys are all learning from eachother and are open to new ideas and theories.

I respect you for that as I imagine a lot of PUAs, who consider themselves at the top of their game, probably don’t like to think they can learn anything more about seduction.

As for the bootcamp, it sounds like it was a really interesting one. Im kind of divided on the subject of NLP, but I would certainly be keen to get hold of the DVD when it’s out to open my mind to what NLP can offer.

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