Really good post.

In my experience though, it’s not necessarily the lifestyle one has that determines their success, but rather how they perceive their lifestyle which makes the difference between success and failure. That’s why you get City Brokers who aren’t great with women.

The key thing is ‘value’. How do you honestly value yourself and your lifestyle?
It’s easy for someone who works in McDonalds to turn to himself and say that he’s low value, just because he flips burgers for a living. But since Game is about self improvement, how can a person like that reframe it so that he see’s what he does as high value?

He could say:

‘I flip burgers, i’m good at it, but really what i’m learning from this is the value of food, being good with customers, being a team leader and working for a team who is willing to provide good service to their customers which i could then use to further myself, applying those skills elsewhere.’

The reality is, ‘value’ isn’t concrete, but rather created from within. If you perceive yourself as high value, then no environment you’re in will matter, because people will see it naturally and will have no choice but to respect you as high value ;)

Onder