We occasionally train guys by telephone, as part of Gambler’s courtesy phone consultations with mPUAs, and usually the guys we train are very keen to learn from us and try new things. This week I called some guys who had trained with us last January, expecting to be giving them 30 minutes chock-full of advice like we normally do, but this time I found myself being cut short just two minutes into the phonecall… a lot of these guys now had girlfriends and lovers and mistresses! I found myself speaking with guys who were totally different from when I last met them in January… they were now confident and happy and eager to tell me their success stories, and their enjoyable journeys through game. I was a bit shocked at first, but what can I say? A lot can happen in a year, and they were well-trained.
The first guy was really excited about his story: “I made love with this girl on the stairs of her hostel man, at 3 in the morning.” He was already a semi-natural, but booked us to enhance his game even more. He was a musician, and I drew parallels between pickup and music so he could express himself better, like telling him, “Open up. Don’t perform. Create.” He used this to meet new girls, but he met this one while he was still in a relationship, so I told him even if someone’s done it to you, you should let girls down gently, because you never know how it might affect them. He didn’t want to break up with her, so I taught him ways to deepen their understanding so she might accept an open relationship. He’s now dating multiple women.
The next guy’s story was quite special, he was 35 and never had a girlfriend but was looking for one… his whole life he saw beautiful women around him, but he didn’t know what to say to them. After his live training in January he was able to approach these women, and for nearly a year he stuck it out and kept opening, day after day after day. Using conversational techniques to break the women’s autopilot responses and give them something new to experience, he had learnt to elicit their interest 100% and engage with them strongly. His life changed when he called one of these women and she said sweetly: “I’m so glad you came over to talk to me yesterday, most guys never do, and we may never have met.” Puppy eyes and two dinner-dates later, they were in love…
Socio-psycological factors and a desire to succeed gave all these guys a new propensity, a new experience, a new feeling of being alive, and they now all have the power to create something beautiful. So bear that in mind as you ask yourself the question… isn’t it possible that you too could become very good at this, and discover the resources you’re looking for? The idea of letting go, harnessing your full potential, maybe even becoming one of next year’s January boys… nobody can give it to you directly, but like the guys I called, it’s something you can always find.
Alex Street Kid