I’m down in Turkey at the moment with my girlfriend enjoying a few weeks away from the London hustle. This afternoon we went out by boat to a thermal spring and mudbath, and I was mildly surprised to notice that the boat captain was a 70-something year old PUA. When I first saw him my impression was that he was totally decrepit, but when I saw how he sat down with one of the female passengers I noticed immediately that he was a natural PUA. I got out my camera:
Is it comfort or attraction?
The most impressive thing about the captain was the quality of attention he paid the woman. I get a lot of students fretting over their story-telling skills, their routine stack, the 90/10 rule, voice projection and so on; I can’t emphasise enough to these guys that all these “qualities” can create a little bit of positive effect in a woman, but at the end of the day what really counts is the quality of attention a man pays her. And of course when a PUA is stuck in his head trying to remember the next line of his story or figuring out whether he’s in A2 or C3 that’s attention diverted inwards which is not being paid to the girl.
The boat captain’s attention was 100% fixed on the woman, his eyes were locked into hers, not in a creepy way, but in totally harmonious rapport. His entire body language conveyed genuine attention and concern for her happiness, well-being, needs and wants at that particular moment. Again, too many students are misfocused on questions like “Am I good-looking enough?” when what’s far more important is how good-looking he can make a woman feel. So when a man focuses his attention 100% on a woman, with sincerity and sensitivity, she feels like the most beautiful woman in the world and his presence becomes an irresistable part of her life.
And for those of you who are still wondering what I look like caked in mud, enjoy:
He came in from the swamp
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Hey, great post, i totally get what youre getting at here, but minor problem, link to your picture doesnt work!
Saving up for a PUATraining bootcamp,
Matt