Hi guys,
Just wanted to talk about “Attitude,” as the way you think about people and the women you are approaching will affect the way you feel and the energy you project towards the girls and your overall performance. This is important because if you can make people around you feel good… they will love your company and want you around more.
Here are a few thoughts i have about women and people and these are the thoughts that enable me to attract women quickly and easily…
1. Think of the target you are about to approach as if she is your best friend and you have known here for ages.
If you do this and you are able to trick yourslef into thinking/pretending that she is a friend, you will feel more relaxed and comfortable… why? Because you feel relaxed and comfortable around your girl friends don’t you.
2. You are making her day better! The point of every approach is to make her smile, make her enjoy her day just a little more and make her like being approached by guys.
3. Remember that she is just trying to find happiness and love just like everyone else so don’t judge her! Be nice towards her and treat her with respect but don’t treat her like a porcelain dole! Treat her like you treat your friends and talk to her the same way.
4. Be interested in who she is, what she enjoys doing and reward her for being nice and talking to you. When she tells you something, repeat it back to her (so she knows you are listening to her)
5. Treat her the way you would like to be treated, imagine you were in her shoes… how would you like to be approached by someone?
6. Talk to all the girls even if they don’t look like models, talk to every single person you have an opportunity to talk to and watch your people skills grow. Talk to the girl at the counter, have a laugh with the bus driver, get into the habit of being a guy who overflows with positive thoughts towards others.
You will be happier for it… when was the last time you did a nice thing for a complete stranger? Make it a habit every day to do at least one nice thing for a random stranger and watch how it make you feel good about yourself.
Keep approaching and I’m always here if you want some personalised help. 121’s are the best way to improve your game and there are lots of trainers on the site to pick from ;)
Seriously, if you want to make massive progress today and not in the months to come, get some personalised help and ask your coach exactly what you want to learn and get him to demo!
Keep approaching!
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So true! I do make her day better! ;)
And it’s all about being happy and genuinely friendly. Doing nice things for complete strangers is about being the best man you can be. And sometimes, you just happen to impress the right people — even when you didn’t know anyone was watching.
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Hahaha Richard took down his post about supposedly approaching 50,000 women after the criticism we heaped on him for being a tool. Guess it shows that he was lying after all.
Also, by acting as though you’re already best friends, sometimes girls will actually think they know you, but have just forgotten where they’ve met you. If someone comes up to you saying “Hey mate! It’s great to see you again, we haven’t seen each other in ages! How’ve you been?”, you might be looking at him thinking “…do I know you?”, but you will likely go along with it anyway (at least for a while), to find out who this person is. I’ve actually opened this way and got great results, because by the time the girl realises she doesn’t actually know you, she’s invested in the conversation to the point where severing rapport would be socially unintelligent.