Getting her to think about s*x with you

Hey guys,

It’s all well and good getting a cute giggle from a girl after a perfectly executed routine. But there’s something I want you to remember today gentleman. S%x.

A lot of guys struggle find it hard taking things to the next level. And the reason is this: They do’t communicate to the woman that they are a sexual man. These men don’t talk about s%x, or they’re scared to ‘reveal’ to women that they want it. Society has trained us this way; politeness tells us that a gentleman will not talk about this kind of thing so openly, least of all with a woman he has just met.

But seriously, you have to be very careful about being too shy and prudish about this kind of thing. A lot of guys I know who are stuck in the “Platonic friend zone” are in that position because the women they talk to don’t see them as a sexual man. Most likely if you ask these girls about the guy who’s stuck in friend zone they’ll say “I COULDN’T imagine having s%x with him, we’re too close, and beside that it would just be so weird!” Translation: She doesn’t see him as a sexworthy guy.

I’m not saying you have to be some kind of obnoxious chauvinist about all this and get all one-track minded about s£x. But there ARE little things to can do to spice up your conversation and make it more sexually charged. It might be as small as simply acknowledging that you’re attracted to a girl. When I was first introduced to my current girlfriend the first thing out of my mouth was “You’re pretty”. Does this sound like a good opener? Not on paper, but simply communicating this kind of attraction in a non-needy way is powerful.

Or another example, a friend and I were having lunch yesterday when a mutual girl friend of ours comes over to say hello. Half way through the conversation I got a bit restless and decided to cut the tension “NICE leggings, what colour underwear are you wearing with them?” All the while making a funny curious face, followed by a cheeky grin. She giggles and says “I can’t remember”. I say “Show me them” Still being playful. So in the middle of this sandwich bar this girl is reaching into her skirt and pulling the top of her underwear over her skirt just to qualify herself and because I’m being playful during her boring routine day.

Find ways you can sexually charge conversation and you’ll find the girls you meet will treat you much differently. Remember, if you lead with your attitude, the girl will follow. If you’re relaxed and fun when it comes to s&x and don’t put huge pressure on it, neither will she. If you’re all nervous and prudish, be prepared to wait a while before she wants you in the bedroom. The choice is yours.