Hey Guys,
Thank you for your responses readers. I’m glad to hear you guys are giving it a go; it’s always great to be the part of the motivation behind your success.
This week’s lesson will be referring to what you do once you’ve got the motivation to go out. It’s all good and well me telling you to go out but not if you’re standing there in that corner of the room like a lemon wishing you could go home- everyone’s been there! It’s that feeling that everyone else must know each other or be friends of friends and you feel like you’re completely out of place and couldn’t possibly talk to any of them. Let us be honest why would they want to talk to you?!
Now that’s the key, this question is the wrong question but it is pivotal in this lesson, the question should be; why wouldn’t they want to talk to you?!
Now if you can sit there and think of lots of interesting things about yourself, you think you are sociable and funny, easy to talk to etc. we can move on to the next part of the lesson if you can’t do this you’ll have to wait until next weeks lesson for your help, sorry boys! If this does sound like you though comment and I’ll write about this next week depending on the demand!
So back to those of you who are happy with your ability to talk to people and boys, I don’t mean a long conversation. However, I do mean one that isn’t awkward and consists of more than a weather forecast and a forced smile! Here the lesson is about choosing your captive audience. I have found that when working with clients without much experience they tend to pick difficult situations to open and then get depressed by a bad outcome. Although it is good to get to a level where you can open any set, when in training try and pick open sets to practices on. Therefore this week’s lesson is knowing who to approach!
This may sound like it’s obvious and easy to some of you but to a large majority it isn’t and it’s a skill that I teach. It is pivotal in creating a good interaction and it isn’t decided on by the attractiveness of the lady in question, she isn’t more likely to talk to you if she isn’t attractive boys; you’re just more likely to be depressed if it goes wrong because you thought it would be easier!
This is turning into a long post with a lot of branches and questions guys. So next week I’ll tell you who to approach. However until then, if it is easy could you guys tell me, who should you, approach for an easy set?! I’ll respond to the comments and show the pitfalls next week!
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Until next time, have a great week!
The easiest sets in clubs are the girls standing or sitting in high traffic areas doing nothing. They’re obviously bored, low energy and are just waiting for someone to come and lighten up their night.
Also large groups of girls (8+) – they don’t get approached because guys in general would be too scared of being blown out in front of that many girls. The most obvious example of this – Hen’s night – subconsciously the girls are wanting some attention like the Hen has obviously got back home.