Comments on: THE DARK SIDE OF BEING A PUA! http://www.puatraining.com/puablog/2008/11/the-dark-side-of-being-a-pua/ The Most Active Pick Up Artist Seduction Blog on the Planet Tue, 07 Feb 2012 14:33:27 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Brian http://www.puatraining.com/puablog/2008/11/the-dark-side-of-being-a-pua/#comment-7002 Brian Mon, 22 Nov 2010 00:13:21 +0000 http://www.puatraining.com/puablog/?p=960#comment-7002 well surely all PUA will start out like this, I don't imagine myself walking around calling people HB's and talking like a twat, but we all have to learn and start from the very bottom and work our way up, you can't look down on them, because you were once like them well surely all PUA will start out like this, I don’t imagine myself walking around calling people HB’s and talking like a twat, but we all have to learn and start from the very bottom and work our way up, you can’t look down on them, because you were once like them

]]> By: Joker http://www.puatraining.com/puablog/2008/11/the-dark-side-of-being-a-pua/#comment-2414 Joker Sun, 28 Dec 2008 00:06:48 +0000 http://www.puatraining.com/puablog/?p=960#comment-2414 This was beginning to happen to me, so I ditched all my game, just just went out to vibe. I found all my results instantly shot up a notch. It seems to me that, in all things, if you train too much without a break, you'll burn out and be forced to take a long break and many steps back. But if you have a short lay off, the rest period boosts your progress, so that when you come back, you find yourself much stronger - like me. This was beginning to happen to me, so I ditched all my game, just just went out to vibe. I found all my results instantly shot up a notch. It seems to me that, in all things, if you train too much without a break, you’ll burn out and be forced to take a long break and many steps back. But if you have a short lay off, the rest period boosts your progress, so that when you come back, you find yourself much stronger – like me.

]]> By: nickyboy http://www.puatraining.com/puablog/2008/11/the-dark-side-of-being-a-pua/#comment-938 nickyboy Mon, 10 Nov 2008 13:27:18 +0000 http://www.puatraining.com/puablog/?p=960#comment-938 totally hit the point, anything can become detrimental if taken too far and that might be difficult to appreciate. Especially if initially its taken up with great gusto as if its all win win..example exercise, getting a suntan , or for instance people who think" i'll just make a few adjustments with plastic surgery" and end up looking like a freak 10 operations later !!!... apply moderation in all endevours people. Anything can go too far even, the good stuff Nickyboy totally hit the point, anything can become detrimental if taken too far and that might be difficult to appreciate. Especially if initially its taken up with great gusto as if its all win win..example exercise, getting a suntan , or for instance people who think” i’ll just make a few adjustments with plastic surgery” and end up looking like a freak 10 operations later !!!… apply moderation in all endevours people. Anything can go too far even, the good stuff
Nickyboy

]]> By: Richard http://www.puatraining.com/puablog/2008/11/the-dark-side-of-being-a-pua/#comment-932 Richard Sun, 09 Nov 2008 12:46:33 +0000 http://www.puatraining.com/puablog/?p=960#comment-932 Excellent post Pete! And I really appreciate the honesty behind it, it's nice to hear someone actually giving an opinion of the community and PUA lifestyle which hasn't been overly exaggerated or 'sexed-up'. Im into PU because I want it to enhance my life, but I also look to other sources and experiences to develop myself. Reading this article has confirmed for me that PUA is not something to get devoted to and consumed by, but just one of a number of self-improvement activities that should be experienced. I totally agree with Pete's point about meeting the guys who talked in jargon and had insecurities; there's no point in learning how to fake being good with women, that will only resolve the issue of not getting laid. What I really want to tackle is something much further down in my sub-conscious mind, I want to be myself and be incredibly happy to be who I am. Excellent post Pete! And I really appreciate the honesty behind it, it’s nice to hear someone actually giving an opinion of the community and PUA lifestyle which hasn’t been overly exaggerated or ‘sexed-up’.

Im into PU because I want it to enhance my life, but I also look to other sources and experiences to develop myself. Reading this article has confirmed for me that PUA is not something to get devoted to and consumed by, but just one of a number of self-improvement activities that should be experienced. I totally agree with Pete’s point about meeting the guys who talked in jargon and had insecurities; there’s no point in learning how to fake being good with women, that will only resolve the issue of not getting laid. What I really want to tackle is something much further down in my sub-conscious mind, I want to be myself and be incredibly happy to be who I am.

]]> By: Gambler http://www.puatraining.com/puablog/2008/11/the-dark-side-of-being-a-pua/#comment-926 Gambler Sat, 08 Nov 2008 22:23:33 +0000 http://www.puatraining.com/puablog/?p=960#comment-926 Pete sent me a text saying he posted something controversial. I feel exactly the same way. Anyone who acts like the PUA described in the above for a few months is not necessarily a weirdo. BUT, if you are still doing this after a year or two, then your game, your life, and your soul will suffer! There's an off-ramp that you need to take where you make it more about lifestyle than PUA. Doesn't mean you get less girls, or have less fun, in fact you'll probably have more. -G Pete sent me a text saying he posted something controversial. I feel exactly the same way. Anyone who acts like the PUA described in the above for a few months is not necessarily a weirdo. BUT, if you are still doing this after a year or two, then your game, your life, and your soul will suffer! There’s an off-ramp that you need to take where you make it more about lifestyle than PUA. Doesn’t mean you get less girls, or have less fun, in fact you’ll probably have more.

-G

]]> By: Sluib http://www.puatraining.com/puablog/2008/11/the-dark-side-of-being-a-pua/#comment-922 Sluib Sat, 08 Nov 2008 14:22:30 +0000 http://www.puatraining.com/puablog/?p=960#comment-922 I like your posts Pete, but this1 was more like style's "are you social robot 2" with some random thought of your own. Still extremely important post, which should be repeated every month for new people finding PUA community. I like your posts Pete, but this1 was more like style’s “are you social robot 2″ with some random thought of your own.

Still extremely important post, which should be repeated every month for new people finding PUA community.

]]> By: Gareth http://www.puatraining.com/puablog/2008/11/the-dark-side-of-being-a-pua/#comment-917 Gareth Fri, 07 Nov 2008 20:50:34 +0000 http://www.puatraining.com/puablog/?p=960#comment-917 Hay Pete, I thought that the last blog written was AWESOME. I have been reading and watching some pick up material over the past 6-9 months but feel your article has touched a spot. Having a balance in my life and not over obsessing on this stuff is of key importance. Great blog and I will be definitely be looking out for more of this stuff. Hay Pete,

I thought that the last blog written was AWESOME. I have been reading and watching some pick up material over the past 6-9 months but feel your article has touched a spot. Having a balance in my life and not over obsessing on this stuff is of key importance. Great blog and I will be definitely be looking out for more of this stuff.

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