I spent some time in Brazil a few years ago and made a lot of Brazilian friends. Every so often they would come over to the UK to visit.
Several years ago, a pair of brothers came over. Neither spoke a word of English when they arrived, both were similar looking but their experiences with women here really made me examine my own beliefs even though this was before I learned game.
One of the brothers, Eduardo, didn’t get any action from girls when he was over here, he said that he found the language barrier too difficult. Marco on the other hand used to regularly put his arm around two girls, kiss one, kiss the other then get the two girls to kiss each other. This was all without being able to talk to them.
When I asked him how he was able to do something that none of my other friends could do – despite being able to communicate with the girls – he told me that he knew that back in Brazil, the girls liked someone who was leading and daring and that he used to do that often, and why would girls here be different.
I think that there’s a really important lesson in this story – who gets it?
Was Eduardo just full of excuses or was what Marco did just not in his reality at all?
Nice post. its always good to have that reminder to lead!! its easy to forget that as a guy you have to be the one leading, and it feels much better when im the one initiating the conversation rather than some chick. if she does it i dont feel very manly thats for sure.
His actions were bold and different to what most people would try because he focussed upon the solution rather than the problem. A great mindset to have.
Girls are girls. Animals like anyother like puppies. Just because a chiuaua barks differently than an alsation doesn’t mean he’s not gonna try and sniff her arse.