Saturday at Café de Paris
I went out on Saturday night with some friends from the gym and had an awesome time in Café de Paris (London west-end nightclub). I hadn’t had a proper night out with friends for a few weeks, so it was certainly welcome. Multiple k-closes, multiple n-closes, lots of banter, Robocop moments, and some of the craziest IOIs EVER!!! At one point I was walking through the dance-floor, which was packed, and had several women in a row basically lay it on a plate for me! I didn’t do anything with them, though, as I was leading another woman by the hand (who I’d been snogging in the back room about 30 seconds earlier), but as soon as I got her back to her friends I got an IOI from HBSitting, whom I immediately went to, sat beside her and kissed her… damn that felt gooooooood! LOL
As I walked around, I was doing a little visualisation that I’ve developed to get my vibe going, and man does it work a treat. I felt good and in the zone and nothing was going to stop me. It helped that I had good social proof… we were a mixed group and I’d be surprised if other women hadn’t noticed me messing around and having fun with the women in our group, dancing with them on the stairs so everyone on the dancefloor could see us, picking them up in my arms and swinging them around etc. Opening sets was just too easy!
NB: In retrospect, I did lots of really great stuff which was textbook pick-up gold. I only know that, however, because I’ve studied the subject and can look back on the night and say “yeah, I know exactly why this or that worked”. In reality though, I wasn’t consciously doing any particular routines or techniques during the night (except for that visualisation I mentioned earlier – something I’ve developed recently and am still fine-tuning)… what I was doing was having fun! I was in the moment, generally not thinking about anything else, not worrying what people thought of me, not caring if a woman liked me or not, just having tons of fun. I was 100% outside my head, going with the flow and enjoying every moment, and that my friends is a sure-fire way to attract women.
I hope you guys are having fun practicing your skills out there… if not, then now’s the time to start! Good luck and happy times… -A
May I state that it all sounds a little exaggerated… multiple n-closes?? Maybe you are still in “the moment” and remember it better than it really was.
confused … :-S
Thought I was quit clear in my statement.
I smell bull Sh*t,
I attended a PUA training bootcamp a few months ago , I didnt see you approach any women, not even a demo in front of students, same goes for some of the other “trainers” on here
I think its about time that some of these trainers actually started to provide evidence of their “skills”
The only guys at PUA training that should be coaching guys are Gambler, Beckster, and Richard Mac, and Alistair. and Kezia
well, i’m sorry you feel that way but I guess I can’t account for your opinion on my experience on Saturday night formed from looking at a computer screen on a monday. Perhaps you could ask my friends who were actually there, or Gambler who’s seen me in action in the past seeing as you trust his opinion. Maybe i’ll think twice about sharing my experiences for your benefit in the future… I’m sure some people out there will appreciate it rather than just flaming. Personally, I don’t see anything outlandish in my field report… I didn’t say I had an SNL after grunting at a girl, then shagging her in the toilets – that would be bullshit. I didn’t do anything I haven’t done before, though those IOIs on the dancefloor were stronger than anything I’ve experienced in the past, and I feel really good about the night in general. Just being honest… you’re entitled to think whatever you like.
Hey Ayman,
I’m sorry you got some negative responses.
I wouldn’t listen to them, coz i HAVE seen guys do what you were doing. And I say rock on all the more power to you buddy.
I’m assuming it was one of those nights where it was “ON” and everything seems to pan out naturally.
You dont have to think anything. You just do what feels right.
I’m a chick and while I dont go picking up guys(sometimes as a fun game) there are nights when you are feeling it and other nights when you are not.
But good work! Love the article.
Hot Approach Coach
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Ayman has fantastic club game because I’ve personally trained him more than anyone else and he worked with my mentor Steve. I’d like to know what the visualisation thing is though!
Ayman’s game is mostly non-verbal and he can do the instant k-close thing pretty regularly, however just like my preferred style of game, it is best suited to a nice club with hot girls when with friends.
I did a Bootcamp 30 May – 1 June. Truthfully I was hoping for one of the ‘big name’ guys (Gambler or Beckster) for my first session when I was assigned Ayman for our first day game session. However after that first hour I wasn’t interested in having another 1-on-1 trainer. I couldn’t even muster the courage to talk to a girl at first yet Ayman physically pushed me into set. After that I had successes with him coaching me again and again and again.
I had Marina as a Wing girl that night (who was amazing) and after she left I found Ayman. He pushed me into more and more ridiculous sets every single time. Again. And again. And again. At the age of 22 I had kissed one girl before in a club. That night I kissed… no.. MADE OUT WITH 5 girls including 2 Strippers. Over the weekend I F-closed a GORGEOUS Canadian besides getting 25+ numbers.
I asked to have Ayman again the next day for day game and night game… and he continued to push my boundaries and DESTROY MY REALITY. He untapped the inner confidence, the PUA stuff that I had been reading for years and years and never had the courage to use – and allowed me unleashed it through outer game like hell all at once.
Two months later I was in London and had enough money for 2 trainers for 1-on-1′s. I chose him and Kezia. Gulliver was there the night of Ayman’s session so I can vouch for him too. All night they did unbelievable shit. They made out with girls at will and during it all we had unbelievable fun (our session kind of ended once I was off in the corner with a model). All good nights hey Ayman?
Mike I am surprised at your comments as to who should be trainers at PUA, none of us write these blogs to ‘provide evidence’ we are sharing our experiences to try and help you guys progress your game:-) Also, mate have you missed my last few blogs, I post videos as oppossed to text, please take a look and i’d welcome your comments and questions.
If it were possible to film in night clubs, I know Ayman would put up video blogs of him. I’ve seen him in a club and to be honest Ayman is a classy guy who does everything he wrote about in this blog with a lot of smoothness.
Stay kool and keep gaming.
Your Friendly, Neighbourhood PUA Dharam ;-)
Hey, I haven’t posted in a while because I am trying to be a bit more productive and not blog so much and things are going well for me.
I wanted to post on this topic however, as I have previously attended a PUA training bootcamp. The bootcamps are like this
YOU GET OUT WHAT YOU PUT IN!
I really think Mike wants an easy way to PU girls and didn’t put in effort in, this is the reason I think he didn’t enjoy the BC.
Mikes comment SCREAMS negativity! No matter if it was the best bootcamp in the world, Mike’s attitude would only see the negative side of things and I think that he has no problem with the bootcamp but a problem in his thinking. Now I know that’s judgemental but I think that is the problem. That is my opinion.
I can honestly say I had a great experience at the bootcamp, I learned that
1. It is not that hard to pick up girls
2. It is time to take action, I didn’t want to go there and be in awe at how good Gambler or Beckster or this particular trainer were, i wanted to be better than those guys, and I will be soon!
Hey Guys,
Listen, this wasn’t personal attack on PUA Training, or on Ayman directly, or any of the other instructors. Many of whom were not trainers during my time at the bootcamp, so I have no ability to judge their PUA skills. I have bought most of PUA trainings products and they are all really good particularly the natural game book and mp3′s.
Maybe I was being a bit unfair on Ayman and I would like to apologise if I caused any offence, but I’m only saying what I saw at the time. At the end of the day, everyone has there own opinion, but I repeat, I did enjoy the bootcamp for the most part
See link below written by someone else-
http://www.puaratings.com/PUATraining/ThePUATrainingBootcamp
The bootcamp was great and yes you have to put the effort in without any question. However anyone can force you to approach women, you don’t need a trainer to force you do it, especially if they don’t have the confidence/ability to do it themselves. After all, we are paying over £600 to be taught by someone who does have the necessary skill level.
All I’m saying is that it would have been nice to see more of the trainers, do some approaches in order for you to believe that it is possible and achievable.
In fact, during the bootcamps one of the things that helped me approach was seeing other students who seemed more socially awkward than me, actually approaching. It made me think, well if they can do it so can I.
Noel, I’m not really sure how you can say that I didn’t put any effort in as you weren’t there. I did well over 30 approaches over the weekend, and traveled hundreds of miles to attend at the cost of over £1000, so I was committed.
I went on the bootcamp at the beginning of the year, so I guess things always keep on improving over time, and student get better results as the bootcamp develops.
To me, I have always found better to learn over time rather than, say, over a weekend. Maybe I would have been more suited to one on one training instead, but that’s just my personal preference.
And Noel yes, you are right. I have probably become a bit negative over the whole PUA thing, as things didn’t develop after the boot camp in the way I was expecting, which was my fault.
If you read the product description for the boot camp, it almost implies that if you attend the boot camp you will instantly lose your fear of approaching, and start sleeping with hundreds of women.
What I will say is that you must find a way to keep you’re developing and growing straight after the bootcamp as it is very easy to settle into you old ways, and before you know it, back to square one.
Remember the momentum Training that was being offered..?
Ayman sounds like you had a sick night! the frustration is there for a lot of us that know we can game as well (potentially) but we’re not there at that level as quick! personally as much as it hurts (lol) to read, its great for learning (as Dharam said) and for mental visualisations. Cardenas has got a blog thats awesome, ‘owning the club’ i think its called, puts me in a fantastic state before i go out… so next time you have a mad one, nockin back girl after girl i sincerely hope you relay your adventures
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Well I don’t know why any of that was even brought up, as its pretty obvious with all the amazing free stuff we get and evidence in video form that all these guys are amazing… p.s. I tried to organise a 1 on 1 with you Ayman a bit ago and havent heard back since u went away till the 6th if I remember correctly, just wondered if anything has gone wrong..
Jennifer – “I’m assuming it was one of those nights where it was “ON” and everything seems to pan out naturally. You dont have to think anything. You just do what feels right.”
Exactly right, but I know that without the training, the experience and the knowledge of pick-up, those moments would NEVER have happened to me, and for that I’m really grateful :-)
Gambler, thanks mate… I’d never have been able to do this kind of stuff without your help, and I’m eternally grateful to you for that. It’s certainly changed my life, and learning from the master is a real honour. Having seen you in action though, I’ve still got a lot to learn!
John, thanks to you too… I still remember quite clearly your very first approach on the bootcamp and the way you responded afterwards. It sent shivers up my spine, and you’ve really got to take credit for your awesome attitude and the way you were totally open-minded about taking in my feedback, theory and direction and just going with it. If I’m correct, I remember you (unknowingly) pulling a couple of married women that night (remember cat-woman??? haha) as well as the other hot chicks, and two girls begging you to take them home and f*ck them… naughty boy! ;-) And yes, that night in Aura was sick!!!
Dharam, well said! Though I don’t think I would film what I do in nightclubs. I know it would raise my profile as a trainer and get me more clients, but to be honest I value my privacy and the privacy of the girls I get with too much… that might change in the new year though lol
Noel, very true, and you are a student who has consistently applied himself also. I like your style. NB: Having seen Gambler’s game first hand, if you can beat him then I want to see!!!!! lol
Mike, thanks for the clarification, I appreciate it. I found your initial comment quite hard to take as I’ve been through a lot of hard knocks and quite painful setbacks in getting to where I am now. I hope to write a blog post at some point soon about my journey and how I managed to overcome my sticking points. I think the important thing is to keep an open mind. Gambler mentioned that I was trained by Steve. One night I saw him in action in Tiger Tiger, and I actually wanted to give up PUA for good after that! What I saw was scary and outside my reality at the time. BUT, I accepted it and made a point out of getting there myself whatever it took. I’ve since done what he did and, when I got there it didn’t seem so hard! loooool Point is, decide what you want, go for it, and accept no substitute. If you see someone else is doing something awesome, then celebrate it and say “that’s what I wanna do!”… the last thing you want is to feel negatively about it. I hope that helps. And you’re right about keeping the momentum up, but I don’t think you can ever go back to square one once you’ve had a taste. Sure, it takes a bit of effort to get going again, but each time it gets easier, believe me.
Crush, thanks dude, it WAS sick! That night I listened to Promiscuous by Nelly Furtado & Timbaland a few times before going out, and that certainly got me in the mood! ;-)
Matt, glad we cleared that stuff up by email… looking forward to seeing you soon and appreciate the feedback about the company. Cheers.