GAME LESS – Key to great success

Some guys will be screaming at their computer at these words “NOOOOOOO! I need to game more not less, I want to concur my game!” Of course guys who are new to this or have certain areas that are weak in (e.g. Night Game etc) should immerse them self in game constantly pushing themselves out of their comfort zone to improve. However I am not talking about gaming less and getting less women, I am actually talking about GAMING LESS and getting MORE and HIGHER QUALITY WOMEN.

This relates more to night game……..

Okay, from the minute I am talking to a girl I am interested in I am trying to game her as little as possible and get her TO GAME ME! I notice that the PUA’s I seriously rate seem to go under the radar (in general) not always but mostly. They have a stealth quality. To me that is what sets the MPUA’s from the PUA’s. The average PUA (who still might be good with women, I am not doubting that) will be showing her tricks, routines, impressing her and generally putting on a great show. Sadly this is usually for the guys in the group to see. He WORKS HARD and often his closes flake because not enough of true connection is there. Whereas the top PUA’s you don’t even notice. He is cool, low key and smoothly and quietly escalates with little fuss or effort. Whilst the showman is still roaring loudly, scaring off the real prizes. The MPUA has left the club with the best girl in the bar and does not need to roar because he is full! The biggest compliment I had recently was when a student of a fellow trainer said to me “I’ve seen you out several times and I saw you with women but I didn’t think you were PUA trainer. I just thought you were quite good with girls.”

I am extremely lazy when ‘inset!’ I want to do as little work as possible. I think every guy should have standards, not just because to not have standards is low value but also to find someone who interests and excites you for the right reasons. I want to know as much about her as possible and to test her and her to prove herself to me not the other way round. In a club a top PUA can do what I always try to install in my students…….he flips the script.

Now I know this is hard and I am still learning! (As I said I’m lazy and went to do even less work ;-) but it was at the point when I realised this that I started to really feel I was worthy of being a trainer and I had something to share. It is not just about disqualification, negging, push-pull, asking qualification questions etc. This is still actively gaming her. It is about letting go and having a truly strong frame and holding back. To use some of the vulnerable qualities that once may have made a person an AFC but now can be used in a better way. However most of all though, it is about believing and trusting yourself. Easier said than done I know but that is the aim. We have all struggled with this but knowing where to go you are half way there. That is another post though………

This is a little more aimed at people who have advanced their game and find they are starting to make it more about having a life style full of beautiful, interesting women (or one in particular) and not feeling the need to constantly be actively going out ‘sarging’ or gaming because they do it always. However I would recommend all guys, at whatever level to sometimes stop and think “This seems to be going well but who is gaming who?”

Just a thought………As always hope it helps if not ignore it!

Stay Well :-)