Hello GUYS. Hey yo, blahhh. OK, I have a cold and it’s sort of nearly gone but I’m also in a jolly mood and been awake long time..
This post is about having an exprimental mentality, thus makin you experi mental. Very mental indeed. Right then, look, the reason I was able to formulate all my technologies was because I had an experimental mentality + I also studied shit.
I’ve got a game I like to play lately where I fall in love with girls for fun to see how it affects the outcome of my approach. So for instance if I’m in a venue I will ask myself ‘who am I in love with?’ and I will pick a girl and then just tell myself I am deeply in love with her and go and approach her, it has a tremendous impact on the outcome of the approaches because it changes the energy that you’re gonna come in with.
Funny thing is, if you know anything about seduction you will know that the greatest seducers of all time fell deeply in love with all of their victims, if only for a short time. There is scene in the new movie ‘the spirit’ where the doctor of the spirit tells him that he loves every woman he seduces and means everything he says – to each and every one of them. This is quite blatantly aluding to the psychology of the world’s famous seducers in history.
I’ve only been in the game for a short while, but one of the first thing I heard/learnt was to not give the girl too much value, or at least not too much until you get to know her better and she starts to invest a bit of time/effort into you and the interaction.
Isn’t going in with the mindset that you love her giving her about as much value as you possibly can? No doubt it increases the energy you come in with, and definitely affects your mind frame, but wouldn’t it sort of portray neediness as well? It could be quite flattering I guess, but wouldn’t it lower you own value in her eyes. I suppose it totally depends on the manner of how you approach.
Nice idea for an experiment to be honest. No chance to come out with new theories unless they’re tried and tested. Would be cool to hear some of the outcomes you received.
Take care,
Karb
Either give the girl too little value or give her too much. Never give her the actual value you place upon her in my opinion. I prefer to give her too much because it intoxicates nicely.
Also fake flattery is a ‘good’ technique the ‘masters’ of pick up use all the time!
I swear this blog is so boring.
Also all these pick up ‘masters’, ‘gods’ and ‘supermen’ obviously come up with their ‘theories’ in retrospect after an event has occurred and do not think (or barely do) whilst in the field.
A hell of a lot of people backwards rationalise their approaches and seductions. If you’re working with a system then you won’t do this and you will definitely be thinking about what you are doing, but if you are doing a lot of improv that doesn’t have a structure to it you may well end up playing the backwards rationalisation game.
interesting. but OWELL im no good at seduction anyway, despite the numerous of PUATraining one on ones, bootcamps and seminars i still cant make rapport, nclose, date close, f close or have any form of lasting conversation added to my own field work. Shows how much PUAtraining sucks to be honest.
I have a youtube page now in which I’ve posted a couple of videos detailing things I haven’t discussed on here.
http://uk.youtube.com/user/21stCenturyPUA
I was once in your situation, possibly much worse than you are now. I don’t know you and so I can’t say for certain, but I can attest to the fact that I’ve been through some hard times in this game for one reason or another and believe me you can come out on top. Mystery says it takes 4 years of dedicated practice to get to a level you can be proud of. I’m going to have to agree with him on that. You can be good in a year but it takes that essential ingredient that is rumination to attain a real flavour.
Stuff, I reccomend you read Anthony Robbins or buy his audios on ebay. PUAtraining only show you how to do it, its YOU that has to do it in the end. Please look into Anthony Robbins, I think he will change your outlook for you!
thx allistair that was most inspirational
I’ll keep this to the point…THIS WORKS! For best results, host a party and make the movie the first thing that you watch or get it going in the middle, not only will it lighten the mood he’s right, everybody is a lot more open to some very very fun ideas.