The protocolisation of social contact is so insidious that almost all of the participants in the protocols that make up everyday life are unaware that they are communicating not directly from their person but by means of a protocol they have become conditioned to over the years. So far gone is their natural social instinct that they have to be taught the natural social instinct – how to “pick up” girls – as if it were itself another protocol.
simple, yet thought inducing.
sounds like some matrix-esqu shit right there!!! but yeah, i see what you mean
What, like language? That’s a protocol and not part of your core.
This is a really good point. I think a lot of problems dealing with sexy ladies and other high status individuals comes from the adult preoccupation with status. If you can ditch that you go a long way to becoming the kind of charismatic popular person we all want to be. The first few steps I’ve taken with body language and so on seems to be working for me, and I want more! MORE I TELL YOU! :-)
The key is practice and conditioning. The most charismatic people surround themselves surrounded themselves with other charismatic individuals. One of the first steps is to increase your social circle, if you can add even one of these people to your group your conversational skills will improve and sooner rather than later you will be hanging out with more and more charismatic people and coming out of your introvert shell. What is one of those well kept gaming secrets? If you want to improve your game, learn to talk with naturally charismatic people, then take the next step to talking with women.