Hail the Noob Warrior Balls
My mate saw me approach a beautiful girl today, and when I came back he told me I had “massive balls” for being able to approach like that.
It got me thinking – no I don’t. That was easy! I wasn’t scared in the slightest.
I’ve desensitised myself from approaching beautiful women so much, that it hardly ever scares me anymore. So it doesn’t take balls for me to approach anymore. This stuff’s easy for me now.
Now, you noobs out there on the other hand…. you guys who look to the guys who have gotten good, and think “wow man, they have balls”. No sir! It is YOU who has epic balls. It is the noob who has the biggest fear to face, the biggest mountain the climb. The noob approaching the girl for the first time has the BIGGEST TITAN BALLS out of everyone in the community.
Noobs; I praise your warrior balls.
Andy Yosha
(http://www.puatraining.com/andyyosha)
yep manz are on the warrior flex.
The only time things could go back to being difficult for a professional is if they were to stop doing whatever it is that they’re good at, for a length of time.
i was thinking. the best teachers in PUA are usually always the ones that had to struggle to get to where they are at after a very long time. its curious. how can one whose never had problems with communication/socialising/inner game issues and other issues teach a newbie when he’s never been there himself?
Hey someguy,
I agreee 100%. If you started off terrible with girls, then got really good, you’ll still remember what it was like when you was terrible. Plus you’ll remember all the sticking points you came across along the way, and how you fixed them. This is why ‘naturals’ who haven’t studied why they are successful are often unable to pass on their skills to others.
Cool post,
Read this too late after the BootCamp did my first day approach the other day and got told to fuck off, leaving me in severe doubts about the whole pickup thing and wether I’m cut out for it.
Zulu,
I feel for you mate! Massive props to you for trying to keep the momentum up after the bootcamp! I know how scary it is at the start, and how disheartening it is when a girl is rude to you.
The key thing you need to do, is realise that there is a huge seperation between YOU – i.e, who you are at a deep, core level, and who she is saying ‘fuck off’ to. If this girl was a girl who has known you for years, then that fuck off would definitely cut deep. But this girl has no idea who you are. How could you take that fuck off personally? She wasn’t telling you to fuck off, she was just telling the person she ‘assumed’ you were based on the way you approached her. So all you’ve gotta do is change your approach.
One of the most important things you are going to develop in game, is a tougher skin. Read Gambler’s post about the long hard road. You’re at the start of it my friend. It’s going to be tough. But you’re a warrior. Get back up, pick up your sword and shield, and get back into it baby!
And i’ll see you on the other side.
You’ve got to know how fun you are and how you can brighten a persons day, after you’re sure of that, you should approach the best looking one with confidence because you know you’re the catch and she’s gaining something from you. ( a better time)
yoshas post is very inspirational. i can imagine since he is on the puatraining team that he went through a long hard road to be where he isnt today. its not like he already got laid in the first place and had no real problems with this. i mean come on guys.
this is right, he have to through away our fears :)