Want to be an expert?
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“An expert is a man who has made all the mistakes which can be made, in a narrow field.”
Niels Bohr
“People who improve fastest in pick-up, are those who are least afraid of making a mistake.”
Andy Yosha
Andy Yosha
(http://www.puatraining.com/andyyosha)
i find the term pick-up and pick up artist most disagreeable. i prefer seduction and seduction technician
i swear if one really analyses and breaks down a girls appearance NONE of them look that hot. like if you really stare at a girls face and analyse her features none of them look that hot really.
alot of it is aura/fashion sense/personality which gives an illusion of beauty.
Josha has been training in the game for how long? A PUA Expert? come on this is ridiculous
An expert or commonly know as a drip under pressure lol You guys need to pay attention to the BS your running on our self, and when you run the frames of belittling girls, even if its only joking, you are lowing not only the self-image of the self, yet that of any girl/s you meet or hope to meet in future,and you are also poisoning of people’s reference structures indirectly with this toxic BS, which is really not the game you want to be playing,
I have found two type of confidence- ego based confidence- which can also fit in to frames of arrogance and then we have natural confidence which is tapping into your own life instinct of being just you “a man”, solid, calm, confident, and at easy first with yourself (thats where the real magic happens) then from there you lift others up, both guys and girls, with out any agenda, other than just to make people feel good about themselves and in doing that. You create a level of attraction, that is based on a natural energy without any mask, without any ploys, and because of this naturalness. your credibility level is heightened above and beyond any game you can play.
So be mindful of that crap. You are laying out on yourself. And another people notice the words you saying and notice the emotional intensity behind what you’re saying, be respectful to yourself first and foremost, and only engage in talking about yourself in, the most powerful and positive ways that support you as a man and in doing that, you will only ever say good things about other people, and create a level of connection that you’ve been missing while you have been constructing these negative emotional references- and it’s not your fault. We are trained to do this through the media, TV and magazines, the movies, the Internet, and so on and so forth. So it’s a small matter of engaging and re-educating yourself and using some of the ideas processes concepts primarily from NLP, and hypnosis. you can re-organize and re-structure that outdated way of communicating with y/ourselves and other people.
Be easy
Jay
Hey Jay,
You’re totally right about ego-based confidence being different from the core-confidence you will find be being true to your natural nature as a man (and not what society TELLS you should be).
Thanks for the comment :)
The confidence thing is one of them things so many guys miss and don’t seem to get at all- I did the low self value BS for a long long time, so I have a personal experience from moving out and past such ideas, and making the shifts in mind sets that work best for (me) yet we all share a similar bio-mechanical set of circuits so through the experience of exchange of ideas. This can lead opening up different ways for guys to tap into being their own best self.
This link is to a short 14 minute movie about mirror neurons http://www.pbs.org/wgbh/nova/sciencenow/3204/01.html and the role they play in learning and the way he motions effect us, so if we engage with people that support our self devaluing ideas and then it reinforces the mapping out of these negative effects in behaviour.
I know I’m only a guest on your site, yet my experience with in personal development. NLP, hypnosis is quite vast so am not meaning to step on anybodies toes- I have just done yourself bitch slapping a lot more than a lot of other guys, really, so I have a slightly different appreciation for the way confidence and self-esteem functions.
If I have broken any rules by posting the link then just tell me and I will post any of the links in future.
Be easy
Jay
The confidence thing is one of them things so many guys miss and don’t seem to get at all- I did the low self value BS for a long long time, so I have a personal experience from moving out and past such ideas, and making the shifts in mind sets that work best for (me) yet we all share a similar bio-mechanical set of circuits so through the experience of exchange of ideas. This can lead opening up different ways for guys to tap into being their own best self.
This link is to a short 14 minute movie about mirror neurons http://www.pbs.org/wgbh/nova/sciencenow/3204/01.html and the role they play in learning and the way the motions effect us, so if we engage with people that support our self devaluing ideas and then it reinforces the mapping out of these negative effects in behaviour.
I know I’m only a guest on your site, yet my experience with in personal development. NLP, hypnosis is quite vast so am not meaning to step on anybodies toes- I have just done the self bitch slapping a lot more than a lot of other guys, really, so I have a slightly different appreciation for the way confidence and self-esteem functions.
If I have broken any rules by posting the link then just tell me and I will not post any other links in future.
Be easy
Jay
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