The Tao of P.U.- Value and Identity

To many of us look down at ourselves.  We feel we don’t naturally have “high value” or that we have no attractive identity.  To counteract this many guys will fake high value traits and be something they are not and will also lie or exaggerate their identity to make it sound cooler.  This is completely non-needed.  Watch me work any set and I’ll gladly stick out my stomache to make myself look fat, tell the girl I work for some boring company, and proudly declare what a dork I really am without it having any, or else minimal, negative effect.  In reality it’s all about how YOU see yourself.  If the girl can sense that you see yourself as “high value”  and are happy with your identity then it’s OK.  I’m proud to be a dork because I don’t want to live life worried about conforming to what’s cool…that makes me high value.  I’m proud of my boring job because I have ambitions and a plan to do what I’ve always dreamed…this gives me an attractive identity.  This is really a key point also, it doesn’t matter what your identity is now.  What matters is if you have ambition or not.  With this said I’d like to share with you guys a story…

There was once a stonecutter who was unhappy with his lot in life.  One day he saw a wealthy merchant walking down the street in fine clothes.  “How I wish I could be a wealthy merchant!” he cried, and sure enough he magically became one.  He happily continued his day until the king came into town and everyone had to bow before him, regardless of how much money they had.  “How I wish I could be a king and have everyone bow to me!” he cried, and sure enough he magically became one.  While king he noticed that he was becoming increasingly hot and that it was due to the sun. “How I wish I could be the sun since even kings are affected by it’s power!” he cried, and sure enough he became the sun.  While shining down on the earth he noticed something blocking his rays, it was the clouds.  “How I wish I could be the clouds since even the sun can not penetrate it’s might!” he cried, and sure enough he became a cloud.  While a cloud he noticed something moving him and discovered it was wind.  “How I wish I could be wind since it has the power to move everything!” he cried, and sure enough he became the wind.  While he was the wind he wreaked havoc on the land and enjoyed his new power but came across something he couldn’t move, a huge towering stone. “How I wish I could be that stone since even the wind can’t move it!” he cried, and sure enough he became the stone.  Then one day as the stone he felt himself being changed.  “What on earth can be more powerful then I the stone?” he wondered.  He looked down, and to his surprise, he saw a stonecutter.

Hope this helps,

Psych

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