In my last LR I talked about the benefits of social circle game which I truly feel is the best way to go about things. However I wanted to cover the other end of the spectrum namely being SNL (same night lays). While there’s nothing wrong with it I’ve never been a huge fan for a few reasons. The quality of girls you get are usually not as good, there’s no real connection which makes the s*x kind of meaningless (at least to me), and if this is what the majority of your game consists of you’ll need to go out hunting every night and busting your ass to make it happen no matter how good you get.
This night started with me doing a one on one with my student. While doing a bootcamp I always demo of course but never long enough or seriously enough to get a girl all the way into bed because it’d take too much time away from helping my student’s game. However once the bootcamp work is officially done it becomes another matter and then Psych can go to town. I decided to stay out with my student this night and just wing him to see what would happen. We go out to a popular lounge in the area where I meet up with a good friend of mine who’s actually an instructor for another company and specializes in SNL game. I figure “when in rome” and the hunt begins for which girl I’ll be taking home with me tonight.
Now the first thing to realize when it comes to SNL game is that it kind of takes a “PUA radar”. The thing is that not every girl, regardless of how good your game is, will be the kind to sleep with you that night. Even if she is often times logistics wont allow it. What this means is that you need a radar to quickly determine which girl seems like a SNL girl and then quickly figuring out logistics to see if they can be handled in set otherwise you waste your time. At first it didn’t seem like there were any real possibilities, it was a small bar lounge with only about 50 people and only half being women. However when the other guys began giving up it only motivated me more to make something happen. As I’m making my rounds I’m keeping an eye out for two things, somewhat buzzed and sexual. I see a large set with giggling girls who are slightly high energy, probably buzzed so one out of two is there. I go open the set and immediately one of the girls touches my chest and gets close to my face when talking to me…bingo on the sexuality.
Once you spot your SNL girl there’s a few things that always need to happen. The sexual tension must be built really high, strong frame control needs to take place, you MUST know exactly how to lead the set and handle all obstacles and logistics to get her to your place, and also have the ability to handle any shit/congruence tests she throws at you.
As soon as she touches my chest and gets close my hands go around her waist and I bring her in close to show dominance. I begin using AFC Adam’s formula of comfort and breaking rapport while keeping my nonverbals (such as eye contact) extremely sexual. What resulted was fluff talk with slight sexual innuendos to break rapport and physical take aways and turns. However my hands never left her side. I then began leading the pick up by isolating her to get a drink of water with me. This is what I call a visual isolation since the group can still see where you both are, from here I told her we should sit somewhere to drink since my feet hurt and brought her into full isolation away from the friends.
Once seated the qualification and sexual escalation begins. The kino is massively turned up with my arm wrapped around her while I stroke her leg and thigh qualifying her on topics that are either sexual in nature or lead to sexual frames (for example being fun and wild). From here I go for the kiss and get it and from experience I’m pretty sure that I can close as long as logistics can be handled. However it’s always around this point that the shit tests begin to come. With this particular set I handled the logistics by being completely unnreactive and extremely ballsy/confident with my sexuality. For example at one point the girl said “I think I’m going to have to go back with my friends tonight” which implies she IS thinking of a SNL so I respond “And I think that you’re going to have to come home with me so I can ravage that body of yours”. The shit tests comes again with “Hahahaha no I don’t think so…” which I reply “We’ll see…before this night is done I’m going to be f@%king the s%&t out of you.” Her face was priceless here and she was literally speechless but eventually just settled for a disbelieving smile.
As the night progressed I’d amp up sexuality in more ways by grabbing her breasts, kissing her neck, and anything else that went with the moment. It became to much for her though and she went to the bathroom. While doing that I opened her group of friends and began winning them over so that when she came back she saw me in set with them. Not knowing what to do she eventually grabbed one of her girlfriends and went over to the bar. Eventually her other friends joined her and I was left chilling with my student. What then took place was a huge test…who would break first me or her? Often a massive hidden test that needs to be placed is the girl seeing that you have the ability to walk away and when this test is given it’s usually the last one. I remained with my student until finally the girls friend came over to tell me my girl wanted me to come over there. Many community guys I know would mess up here as well and refuse in order to stay “alpha” but the act of her sending her friend over already means I won…I just need to accept her invitation.
I go over and join her and flirt some more. She brings up the fact that she has to leave with her friends so I tell her that she’s an adult and can do whatever she’d like. I flat out refused to be needy or try and manipulate her into coming with me. I knew she wanted me and all I had to do was make sure I didn’t chase in the slightest, just keep her being aroused and let it be her choice what she wants to do. I saw the raging battle inside her head and figured she might need SOME plausible deniability to not feel like a slut. Because of this I suggested we instead just go get something to eat and her friends could even come to (if they don’t perfect and if they do I can always bounce her to my place after). Her friends weren’t hungry so this was a no go. Sometimes things don’t work out though and that’s when you need a plan B. I tell her that my friend’s place (the student’s) has an amazing view and she should come see which she agrees to along with her cousin. I pull up my car and take her, her cousin, and my student to the student’s apartment. Once we get in there sex is just implied. Everyone gets some water, I tell the girl “hey come check out my room”, and then throw her on the bed. I always tell people this but just like some PUAs assume attraction I assume sex. The clothes come off easily and she begins giving me head. From there I put on a condom and get on top of her to close the deal. I was told later that my student was talking to the cousin and heard the banging of the bed against the wall. When the cousin asked what it was he replied…must be construction work.
Hope this helps,
Psych
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